Showing posts with label internet dating. Show all posts
Showing posts with label internet dating. Show all posts

Saturday, October 15, 2011

Are you Lonely tonight? Then you probably want to be

When I was a young lad growing up in a small village in Southern England, I have to confess I worried a lot about my inability to get myself a girlfriend. I can tell you that this was not through the lack of trying. Every Saturday and Sunday It would be the same routine; go to the pub, have a few beers, then down to the local Disco to watch the girls dance round their handbags. Invariably we would end up either in a Chip Shop, or if we had money, in an Indian restaurant. This failure to impress the opposite sex continued on into university life and well........The fact is I never really ever got it together with my chat-up technique, but eventually by chance found someone who would put up with me and have my kids.

So where am I going with this article? The truth is, I wish I was young and single and in the market for a new relationship right now, because today's "dating generation" have got it easy. The internet has changed a lot of things in practically everybody's lives, but nothing has had such an impact on relationships, and the way we go about getting one, like our Laptop. No more dancing around handbags for single people in today's society, and no more embarrassed chat up lines. The new Dating Generation have got rid of the old stigma of online dating and taken it to a new level of finding potential partners. You don't need to even leave your house, just sign into you online dating site, browse for a date for the weekend and try your luck. If it doesn't work, go on to the next profile, and the next, until you are fixed-up. There is no need for anybody to go through the embarrassment that my generation and all of the ones before went through because finding a date online is easy.

So are there any drawbacks? Very few spring to mind, but there is a definite method you need to go about presenting yourself online. A good picture, and honest profile notes will make you more attractive to prospective browsers, and make sure that you are always courteous to people who contact you, even if you have no interest.

So why are you lonely tonight? The handbag shuffle days are long gone, and there are so many new people waiting online who want to fill your life with joy. Unless you are a professional recluse, or just like your own company, get clicking that mouse, and see for yourself the online dating revolution that has taken place.

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Saturday, September 24, 2011

Try These Tips for Dating washington DC

If you're new and single to the D.C. area there are many ways to go about Dating washington DC. This area offers so many opportunities to meet new people and have fun while dating. I know so many people who have lived here for years and haven't even seen all of the incredible sights, museums, and historical buildings.

 

But before you can do all of this you have to get a date. There are endless ways to meet people in D.C. Bars, clubs, and lounges are great for some people but not for everyone. I personally feel that going to those places rarely lead to serious relationships. There is online dating websites where you have the chance to peruse many men and women who may share similar interests. Put up your own profile and see what comes to you. If you're too shy to contact someone online let him or her contact you. That way you don't have to feel rejected if a person doesn't respond to you. But remember, when you put up your profile be as honest as you can and post pictures that are recent so that when you do finally meet for a date you look like yourself. Not the "yourself" 10 years ago when you were 40 pounds lighter.

 

There are other ways to meet someone Dating washington DC. There are several websites that only hold events for singles. They offer speed dating - which is a blast- dinners at great restaurants, holiday parties, and much more. Some of these websites also have amazing events such as cooking classes, wine tasting, hiking, art gallery tours, white water rafting and hikes around the D.C. area.

 

There are so many dating websites out there but if you're not into meeting people online don't fret because there are other ways to meet someone special.

 

Become a tourist in your own hometown. For example go to a museum and take a guided tour. There are bound to be other single men or women there. Bring your laptop to coffee shops. This is a great way to strike up a conversation with someone else that has his or her laptop. Dating washington DC gives you endless opportunities to meet a potential date which can turn into something serious and potentially lead to marriage.

 

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Friday, September 16, 2011

How Dating washington dc affects your life

Dating washington dc is the most exciting time in a relationship.  That is when you feel the mystery about who another person is.  That is when you can enjoy the unsettling feeling in your stomach as you wonder what they think about you.  That is when you live alone, so you can spend as much time as you want getting primped and pretty for the first date.  That is when you can enjoy taking showers without having someone screaming at you from the other room to get out because you are wasting all of the hot water supply.  That is when you can make whatever you like to eat for dinner and not have to worry about sharing, or who is going to complain about it.  That is the phase in the relationship when you do not have to be yourself; you can be anyone you want to be because the other person will not know the difference.

When you do internet dating, you are missing out on all of the things that make it what it is.  When you go out on real dates, you can experiment and taste any type of food you want because you will not have to pay for the meal.  You can suggest the finest theaters, and your date will take you to see premiering plays there so that he does not seem as if he is "cheap".  You can enjoy face to face interactions, hold hands, smell the person, taste their lips when you kiss, feel the goose bumps rise on their skin when you whisper something into their ear, and hear their sultry voice.

Dating washington dc sets the grounds for a relationship.  Everything you do and say during the dates determines how the other person feels and thinks about you, and it lays the pathway for the rest of the relationship.  What happens between two people while they are out on dates determines whether or not they will continue to have a relationship together.  This part of your relationship should not be rushed, forced, or faked in any way because you will just live to regret it later if things play out that way.

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Wednesday, September 14, 2011

Tips for a Rewarding Internet Dating Experience

In today's busy world it seems to be more difficult to find people that you would like to date. The internet has become one of the most convenient ways to meet someone and find a lifelong partner. More and more people are finding life partners through the internet. People are looking for that someone special whether it be by using an online internet dating service, looking in chat rooms, surveying the possibilities on Facebook, or testing their luck in online gaming and other virtual worlds.

There is nothing wrong with internet dating. You just need to use caution and think before you start sharing personal or intimate details about your life.  It is important to remember that you really do not know the people you meet on the internet and that you have to remember that they are a stranger.

As a psychic I receive frequent calls from people who have met someone on the internet and feel they have met the person of their dreams. The person calling me wants to know if the internet person is being honest and sincere with them.  Using clairvoyant methods I, Cherokee Billie, am able to quickly tell someone if the person is being honest or if there is a hidden agenda. 

Often the person on the other end of the internet lives far from the other person and sometimes even in other countries. Right here is a mistake. There can be a great mystique to meeting someone from a different country, but is it going to be practical?  How feasible is it for you or the other person to be able to afford to travel long distances on a frequent basis?  These may be fun fantasies, but rarely do they work out as long lasting relationships. 

It is best to try to meet someone on the internet who is in your area code or at least in the same state that you are in. It is best to date within a 25 mile radius of where you are.  The reason is simple, you want to meet this person face to face as soon as possible because that is going to tell you a lot more about whom this person is. Sometimes people do not even use their own picture on their profile. Many people exaggerate certain facts such as their age, weight, marital status, and sexual history. A face to face meeting will answer most of your questions pretty quickly.

Make sure your profile reflects who you really are. Keep your age within a few years and if you are slightly overweight state that you are. Ask if a person can deal with it? Be upfront with any positives about yourself and any flaws. This will help sort out people that would be a waste of time and energy. Someone has to love you for who you are-warts and all. Do not tell all about your past relationships. That should be reserved for when you meet in person and know this person better.

If you choose to talk by telephone it is best to use a cellular number. Remember this is a stranger you are connecting to. Do not give out your home address. More people are being stalked than ever before in history. Again use caution.

You should arrange to meet within two weeks of constant communication. Do not let a long space of time go before the two of you come face to face. Communicating on the internet can give you a false sense of intimacy.  If the other person delays meeting you there may be a reason and the red flag should go up if they constantly have excuses for not meeting.

Meet in a public place and make sure that someone you know and trust is aware of your meeting and that they have all information about the person you are meeting, such as e-mail address, cellular telephone number, and any other pertinent information. This is advisable for men and women. Use common sense in meeting a stranger. Always practice safety first.

Many people that I have counseled as a psychic have sent money to the person they have met on the internet without ever meeting in person. They are always guaranteed that the person will send the money back and that their needs are urgent.  People have told them every story from someones mother needing surgery to helping them pay rent.  Unfortunately these people have been scammed and never get the money back and never meet the person. I have heard this story over and over. Remember you do not know this person and you have no obligations to help them out financially.

Dating should be fun and internet dating can be fun and rewarding if you use common sense and caution. You are looking to find someone who shares your beliefs, goals, values, and interests.

It does not matter how you meet Mr. or Mrs. Right all that matters is that you do meet and find love.

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If you feel you have met that special person through the internet contact me, Cherokee Billie Clairvoyant/Psychic, and I will be able to provide you with information that you may not know, and verify if they are a good match for you. http://www.cherokeebillie.com

Thursday, August 4, 2011

Being Safe While Dating On The Web

Speak about online dating to all your family and friends and chances are you will get a lot of advice telling you to not even think about it. They'll inform you of stories they've heard in the media in which someone was duped out of their life's earnings or assaulted or even worse.

And to a large degree they are right. The internet is filled with far too many people who are not what they seem to be. Being able to maintain anonymity is one of the negative aspects of being online so in essence it comes down to the honor system. You take a person at their word and hope for the best. For the most part the majority are telling the truth but let's face it, there is a huge percentage that is not being candid.

However no matter how much they have your best interest at heart the people in your social group are not giving you the complete picture. The majority of dating encounters which come to a bad end start out in the real world. In many instances both parties know each other quite well before even deciding to go out.

The point is no matter where you meet a person it is essential to practice common sense and basic safety. With regards to online dating that includes:

1. Background Check

The online dating website you sign up to should have some type of security component set up so you have got a relatively good indication of who you're meeting and what you are getting into. Having said that you should never leave it in the hands of the cyber dating web site to perform all of the checking. You can do some detective work on your own. One example is place your web date's identity in a search engine to see exactly what comes up.

2. Do not Disregard the Warning Signals

Some individuals stroll straight into trouble. A part of it is a result of the other person being quite deceptive in their responses with regards to how they present themselves. But in all honesty lots of it is due to not really paying attention to the warning flags. Many of us every now and then only see and hear what we want to see and hear.

For instance over and over again it is mentioned to stop all contact with any one needing money yet just about every day somebody gets conned out of their life savings. A slight tug on the sympathy strings and all reasoning not to mention good sense fly out the window. Regardless of just how fantastic the conversations are it is important to practice a sufficient amount of distance so you can evaluate meticulously what is being said.

3. Do Not Rush

Following a couple of discussions where both individuals click there exists a temptation to speed up the process. Each of you enjoy many of the same items and yes it all feels so good so why not take this offline right now?

The reason why not is the two of you still don't really know each other. A very good con artist has learned a few well placed agreements to whatever is being said can get the other individual pleading to have an off-line hookup.

On the flip side if they really are con artist then they are likely to grow impatient with any person who's going along at a leisurely speed. A good connection usually takes time to mature therefore staying patient will not merely bear results in that particular direction but in addition boost the chances of weeding out individuals who don't intend you any good.

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Sunday, July 31, 2011

The Fun of Dating Washington dc

I've had a blast Dating Washington dc! At this point in my life I'm ready for a serious relationship, but because I'm in my 40's I want to make sure that I don't waste my time dating the wrong man any longer.

 

I am very fortunate to have a lot of friends that can arrange blind dates. To me that's the same as using online dating websites because those are essentially blind dates, but the difference is you don't have a friend in common which makes me feel a bit safer. I was married for eight years and then got divorced. After the divorce I didn't feel like meeting anyone for well over a year. But after healing I'm ready to date again.

 

Dating Washington dc is great because not only am I fixed up with men through my girlfriends, but I have also begun to explore other ways of meeting men. This city, and the surrounding metropolitan area, are filled with single men, so I've been told. I thought once I hit my age it would be impossible to marry again. Not true!!!

 

I signed up with some dating sites and even though I was a bit hesitant to take that route, so far it's been smooth sailing. I met some interesting professional men but they weren't quite what I was looking for. I did find a site that held speed dating events and I eagerly signed up for that. A Washington, D.C. social networking site called Professionals in the City, host the event. They also hold other events that sound really fun and are things that I am interested in such as hiking, cooking classes, wine tasting events, salsa lessons, and so much more. I'm not shy so I think I'll have a great time and even if I don't meet the man of my dreams, I may meet other people with whom I can attend other events.

 

The great thing about this city it that there are so many amazing places to go on dates. I've lived here for five years and still haven't seen some of the breathtaking sights this city has to offer. Dating Washington dc is great and I look forward to some fun dates in the near future.

 

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