Showing posts with label dating issues. Show all posts
Showing posts with label dating issues. Show all posts

Friday, October 14, 2011

Grown Men Dating Teens

I just couldn't bare the fact that my 16 year old girl is in love with a man that is twice her age. Men that date teenagers have serious problems. What in the world could they both have in common??? I mean it is not typical for a grown man to be sleeping around with a girl who is old enough to be his daughter.

 

Men who date teens are just looking for someone to control. They see the youth in these teen girls that they once had and reacts to it. Although dating a much younger woman might make you feel younger, it does not make you look younger.

 

Attraction is obvious, but what about the age difference. I was watching the Steve Wilkos Show and there was a 37 year old man dating a 16 year old girl. There appeared to be physicaland verbal abuse. Both have a child and living with the teen's mother. The man already has 4 kids and one with his much younger girlfriend.

 

I just cannot comprehend the concept of it all! Where is the mother? I know that as parents it is impossible to watch your kids 24 hours a day. When you find out that your teenage daughter is involved in a relationship with a man that is twice or more her age, there's something that needs to be done.

 

Older men uses these young women for their youth and beauty. The girl might be in a situation where there was no father role model in the home. And she finds that fatherly love by creating a relationship with a man that is illegally out of her limits.

 

Whatever the case might be, it is just a fantasy for him. It will not last, because eventually he will want someone more mature and she will want someone her own age. A man who wants to date a teen, just wants to be able to have power over her.

 

Dating a woman his own age is too much. Older woman are more independent and have more knowledge and experience in life and in relationships. To him, I think that going out with a teen is his chance to mold and create her the way he wants her to be. It's about control.

 

A younger woman has more energy, is spontaneous and full of life. This is another reason why some men date teenagers too. What I don't understand is while some mothers might not like it, but allow it to continue? You can press charges these men, it is illegal.

 

In some cases the men or the girl might lie about their age. But, when everything has come to light action needs to be enforced. Parents should be more aware about who their children, especially girls are dating. It is their responsibility to protect and observe what's going on in their teen's social life.

 

Men who get involved with younger women, some have been married, divorced and are abusive. They are sick and should go after women their own age who can defend their selves. A teenager's mind is not mature enough to obtain a relationship with a man almost two decades older than her.

 

A teenage girl should be able to enjoy life to the fullest, get her education and experience crushes and intimate feelings with a guy her own age. Sure, there is a time in life when a teen might have a crush on a man older than her. When all is said and done that is all it should be, just a crush and nothing more. The so called grown man should be the one to make sure it stays innocent and legal.

 

Also read: Dating Or Prostitution

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Tuesday, August 2, 2011

Relationship and Sex Problems Friends With Benefits Is It Too Difficult Or Easy

So, you just broke up, been dumped or you have something against commitment. And you whether just fool around without all of the other responsibilities. No attachments, no emotions and definitely no falling in love, just friends with benefits.


Monogamy makes your skin crawl, but you still need something, you need physical attachment without the issues. Just about everyone has had a relationship based strictly on sex. It's fun in the beginning, the sex is good, lingering until that special night you two will meet, it's like an adrenaline rush.


 

Friends with benefits is the purpose of two people who are involved based on hot sex. Entwining with each other to let off frustration, stress or just have that urge to release the big O. How can two people get interact with one another and not get emotionally attach?

 

Yes, the physical attraction is there and you give each other something you both need and are satisfied with, but what about how you feel. A man might not get emotionally involved like most women do. Women tend to fall in love more easily because we are soft, nurturing and more sensitive.

Some people might be fine with and has never shared a love with their partner. To those who have you are good, because with me if I'm sleeping with someone, eventually I'm not going to lie, I will be falling in love. You can't control how you feel, that's why it is so difficult to have sex with someone continually and not develop those feelings.

In the beginning the sex drive is extreme! The smell of each other and the passion that's there when your two bodies touch and rub against each other is like fire! Exploding and enjoying the rush and the great sex that you just can't seem to get from anyone else is unique and breath taking. It's not easy, not to me. It is so easy to avoid how you how you feel, but difficult to forget.


Friends with benefits will eventually end up a broken heart story. Falling in love is inevitable. Love is in thee air whether you are looking for it or not. I fell in love with my sex partner, with my friend and it did not end so well. It's fun at first, then later on down the line it the atmosphere changes between you two.

Emotions rise and you begin to miss them, want to know more about them and wondering if they are sleeping with someone else. It can become a huge dilemma in your sex life. You unknowingly see how attracted you are towards your sex partner not just intimately but whole heartedly. What can you do? You want to say something, but don' t want to ruin what you already have.


Friends with benefits is too difficult to me, I been there, done that and not looking back again. There can be a bright side, it how some couples found their soul mate. On the other hand it can get worse and you could have your on fatal attraction hiding in your closet or investigating your every move. It's exciting for some and not so exciting for others.

What do you think?


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About the Author

I love to inspire people, positive thinking makes the world go round. Come check out my profile where I post positive quotes and follow me on Twitter! I love writing about health, I'm an online marketer and have experience in computers. If you have time come checkout my Health blog, it's about sex, health, relationships and everything else: Health and More