Certain Secrets Are Best Left Kept

There is a common philosophy that all secrets in a relationship should be shared and that all facets of a relationship should be open for all considered parties. But there are certain secrets that are best left kept and best left in the deep depths of your mind. The kinds of secret that can do no good and one that can do no good for anyone are really counterproductive.

For example a secret about an ex girlfriend you have bumped into or something someone has said to you at work means that you will not be creating any positive spin whatsoever. You will only cause friction between the two of you and create problems further down the line. Because if you think that being honest about someone at work is productive now just think about when you have that work party and partners are invited.

It will only create jealousy and as long as you are not going to act on the suspicion then there are only problems that can occur from this. Because if you know what you need to know about each other and you fully trust each other then there needs to be more from you in order to keep it that way, so if there is any way in which you think you should keep it secret it is probably best kept.

Knowing that you have a secret to tell there is no desperate situation like guilt but there is certainly an argument to be had that you need to be keeping away from the secret as much as possible in order to make your relationship smooth. The equilibrium need to be kept and when it comes to work things the rule is all that more prevalent because it is ideal for you to keep it.

What if there was a secret about your girlfriend that you wish you knew but once you found out you became that little more paranoid, in fact you become incredibly jealous as a result, so what was the benefit there? You need to think about what cans of worms you are opening when you try to find out things like this.

So be wise and think with your head rather than your gut, don't be taken for a mug but insure that you use your focus in your exchanges and don't look for unnecessary problems in life.

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Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about how to pick up women and how to get women into bed.

Swagger Gets You Places

Swagger will get you places and it will get you to the places that you want to be. Even the most average of guys can have a bit of swagger and you will get yourselves into the right places in order to get women. If you think you will get to the places you need without swagger then you obviously have some confidence, but swagger is one of those mercurial things that is hard to describe but it also brings to the table prospects that not many people have.

It allows you to be the guy you have always dreamt of being, the one person that is allowed to get away with whatever they can and bring to the table certain attributes that will stand them up well in the future, in terms of job prospects as well as with women. Women love a bit of mystery a bit of someone who is going places, they want to feel like they have encountered someone special and in you they can get that.

So if you think that you can get the best of a situation then it can be very important to use swagger in these debates, it is imperative in fact that you are able to make the most of what you have even without swagger. Because if you are not the best version of you then you are letting yourself down, fulfilling your potential for example is your duty to yourself.

So not knowing whether you have swagger or not is something that should not be accepted, you need to believe you have it even if you don't and begin to chat like you love yourself. Because women love a confident guy, if they are convinced you love yourself and you are sure of yourself they will begin to believe that there is something there worth getting to know, and bang you're in.

It is all a big charade of course but if you can work it and get away with it then what is the harm? You get everything you want and so do they, and even after you have slept with them there is no need to call them back about anything. Your work is done and part of the appeal is that you may meet the girl of your dreams and you will be the man of hers. So trust yourself and you may just have swagger.

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Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about how to pick up women and how to get women into bed.

 

Why? Why? Why?

Everything is going just fine when all of a sudden you realise that she is not the one for you, but why, why, why did it have to go all wrong. You have the perfect relationship going for you, everything sits well you know what you want and life is simple but then you get the jitters, you cannot explain them you cannot get the best out of them but the way it turns out means that you cannot carry on.

If the way in which you build yourself up is anything to go by then you do deserve more from it all, but if you cannot make the best of the situation then what is the point. You need to make sure that you are happy with your life and if she is not happy either then frankly what is the point of being together.

To get the best out of the relationship however means that you need to be making the most of everything you do, learning what each other is about, and learning exactly what makes you tick ensures that you can remain together, in fact it is so much so that life becomes that little bit harder when it comes down to it.

If you can learn everything about the girl you are with then you will have every chance of getting yourself into the frame of mind and you will very much be at the races. So if you can know what you want then you have every chance of getting it, because that is half the battle, if you don't know what you want then you will never know what you really want out of your life.

Taking control of your life is something quite hard to achieve, and if you cannot make the most of what you have then you will not get everything you deserve. Especially knowing what you have and what you need to do in life being who you are and struggling the way you get ahead in life, so learn what you want out of your relationships and get everything you need.

So if you want to show yourself in a true light then you really will learn the hard way just what you need from it all, so if you can stop things from happening in some ways then you really will get everything you need out of your relationship.

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Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about how to pick up women and how to get women into bed.

Why Do Men Play Away?

Why do men play away when they have something good going for them? It is one of life's great mysteries, but it seems to be innate in men that they need to do something wrong in the relationship in order to make themselves content. Even when they are happy on the surface and maintain an equilibrium in a maintained relationship, they seem to need to mess it up.

Men are men and there is no way in which they will ever change, they will always be the way they are and some believe that means they will continue to be polygamists. There is no way in which you will be able to change them and there is no point trying, it is built in to men that they must be unfaithful to women and there is no way around it.

If there is any way in which you could change them then that would be fine, but in the way of men being men there is no way around it. Even if people have the girl of their dreams a little temptation can mean that they end up alone even after that. Because if there is no way around the little boring life of a married couple, they will just go out and ruin it themselves.

Disruptive men give the rest of them a bad name, they make the way women think about men a foregone conclusion and they give nothing away as a result. The way that most men think though is detriment to the fact that they need to begin to trust the girl they are with and because they don't they release their insecurities out in the best way possible.

If there is any way out of getting to the soft side of a man I advise you to do so, because if you cannot handle the heavy side there is no point. You need to make the most of every moment and with men doing everything they can in their power to make it about them you need to be able to handle it. So to get the best out of your time together you may just need to accept that they are going to cheat.

Pull yourself together and make sure that the men you are with are pulling their weight. Otherwise you are in for the long haul and you need to get yourself together.

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Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about how to pick up women and how to get women into bed.

Women All Have A Valley Of Hope

Women all around the world see themselves as lost souls, if they are single that is and getting on into their mid life. From 30 onwards they see themselves as somewhat of a lost cause, many doubt their ability to find a man who will actually want to spend time with them, but also they will struggle to make the most of their lives because they spend so much time wallowing in self pity.

This is not the way forward for them, and women need to have the valley of hope, this is where us guys come in, we can use this to our advantage and get as much sex as we want for a while. We will go through a mid life crisis at some point but before we do surely it is the best solution for everyone if we just get what we need to get out of lie. Do what we were born to do, and yes take advantage of those whom we seek to, because they will do it to us.

Humans love to do things that don't involve too much mental attachment, all the things that we need to do in life involve some emotional attachment, but if we can avoid it we will. The same is true of relationships, if we can avoid having to make the most of a situation without having to put too much emotional involvement on the line, then we will.

We don't want to hurt ourselves, we don't want to get burnt by anyone in particular, we want a good life but one that involves us not risking too much on the line. This is where women in their thirties are perfect, they've been around the block, learnt what they need to learn and know the score, so you can exploit the situation however you wish to.

You can make the most of a situation in a way that makes you feel alive and well. You to can get what you need to get out of life by making the most of everything put in front of you. And if there is an opportunity to do something your friends would be proud of then do it, make the most of it and what's more get the best out of life whilst you do it. Seize the opportunity and make the most of your life no regrets.

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Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about how to pick up women and how to get women into bed.

No Spray No Lay

If you do not wear aftershave or deodorant then believe you me there is no way you are going to get yourself laid on a night out. You will struggle to get yourself ahead of the game when it comes down to it, and someone else who has put in the effort is going to benefit from your failure. So get you're a game on and start wearing some spray.

Know what you want out of life and seize it, because if you cannot do this then you won't manage to get your life back on track in fact you will struggle in all essence to make the most out of life. It doesn't matter exactly what aftershave that you wear, just as long as you wear some that doesn't smell like beats.

Because no aftershave is better only marginally than bad aftershave, so if you feel as if you are not going to get the best out of it then make sure you know exactly what you are doing. To get to the top of the tree when it comes to romancing you need to be ruthless and confident. And confidence is complimented fantastically with the right smelling aftershave.

If you know what you want from your woman, then the chances are they will know what they want from you. This means that listening is a huge part of what you need to do, and a huge part of exactly where you need to go with your life. If you know what your girlfriend wants then you can obviously make her a lot happier than anyone else.

You need to find a smell that both you and your girlfriend to keep the relationship in the best way possible. You need to realise the dream that you both have of blissful happiness and you will learn to get the best out of your situation if it is not the dream you once had.

If you are single however then it is imperative that you make the most of what is going on in your life. You need to wear a huge amount of aftershave and deodorant to ensure that you are never found wanting. If you can manage to achieve getting laid without then well done, but if you seriously want to get laid then you need to make the most out of everything you have and get laid.

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Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about how to pick up women and how to get women into bed.

One Night Stands Aren't All That

We have all had one night stands, and all had sex during a relationship and the world knows that one night stand sex does not measure up to that in a relationship. If there was any doubt in this then it is probably best that you have a one night stand to see which one is better. The familiarity and comfort that you get when it comes to relationships cannot be matched by a one night stand.

One night stands can be more exciting, more passionate and overall more pulsating but in the end pulsating dies a death. If you want intimacy then it is time you got yourself back into a relationship, and if you can manage to do that, then you will give yourself more satisfaction than a one night stand ever could.

Bring with someone who you are spiritually connected to as well as fond of on different levels leaves a greater feeling of happiness and satisfaction. A girl you bring back from a club whose name you frequent to remember the next morning doesn't quite have the same lasting effect. In fact some might even argue that you sometimes don't enjoy the experience of a one night stand.

Feelings of neglect and being used in the morning by one half of the party are not to be encouraged but it does happen, and it can leave you in a state of disrespect. Whether it be a huge understatement or unrealistic expectations, there can be no doubt in the event of a one night stand we are left feeling deflated.

There is satisfaction in the way that we pick girls up in a club and bring them home, a sense of achievement and another conquest. But in the reality of it, it can sometimes be over stated and underestimated, you may get pats on the back from your friends and a couple of women following you up on a request, but longevity means you need a relationship.

So why not go out and make the best of it and try to find a relationship, that way you will get the best out of your life and make the most of your time together. If you believe that you do not want a relationship then that is fair enough, but to corrupt yourself from the possibility of a relationship is naive and damaging.

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Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about how to pick up women and how to get women into bed.

You Only Get Over Someone When You Find Someone Better

The truth is to anyone that has gone through a break up and they are struggling to get over their loss, you never really do get over it until you meet someone else. This is because we are animals that need to be with people all the time, we seek companionship and we need to get the best out of situations. To do so however we need to be with someone amazing.

If you lose someone who was special to you it feels like there is a part of you that is missing. Nothing is quite the same in the aftermath, food doesn't taste as good, the country air feels that little less sweet and even your football team winning doesn't feel quite as great. It certainly does take the gloss off life when you lose someone dear to you.

But there is only one way back into the sweet smell of life flowing around you and that is to find someone else even better. If you can manage to do this then your life will feel whole again, but until that point you will struggle to get your life back in order completely. Now you may be able to get yourself back on the road in some part, but you will seek that part of you still.

You see you could be rich, powerful and popular in all walks of life, but without that special someone it just doesn't feel quite as great. So in order to get your life back in order and to know exactly what it takes to make the most out of your life it is imperative you find someone to fill the void.

Now you may look for someone who is the complete opposite to your previous partner, or you may look for someone staggeringly similar, it really depends on which side your coin falls on. But if you feel as though you can get your happiness back it does not matter either way. You just need to get back on track.

We have the right friends around us and the right people to get us out of the house, so make the most of it. Ensure that you get out there again, put yourself out on a limb and find the girl of your dreams. Being wiser the second time around is also important o when you get her don't blow it.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about how to pick up women and how to get women into bed.

Talk To The Girl Next To Her

Another great dating tip is to talk to the girl next to the one that you actually like. There are no heart strings like those pulled when you try to make someone jealous. The green eyed monster is something of a fickle beast, he comes out when you are most vulnerable, but goes away again when it is your turn to get out in the sun.

There are so many different ways to find a way through the defences of women, to get the best out of a situation you need to be unique. But you also need to be versatile in your tactics, if however you find that the girl that has caught your eye is out with her girlfriends, then ensure that you talk to one of her friends before you do her.

You see girls out together are naturally in competition with each other, and if you make an impression on one of them, you will make one on them all. If you feel as if you are able to get the best out of the situation without doing this then you have every chance. But the chances are you should employ this tactic when it comes to a girl being with her friends.

The woman you like will want you more than anyone that night; you see they want what they can't have. Beautiful women are so used to being hit on, so used to being the centre of attention that if they are not, they have to rectify it. And to rectify it they need to come on to you, they need to advance themselves in ways they wouldn't have before.

You need to rile the beast in order to get a beautiful woman to come on to you, showing her just what she is missing out on, and showing her something she has not seen before. If you can successfully do this, then you will succeed in getting her number without fail, and also most likely manage to get laid for the night.

If you believe that this girl is meant for you then they may be other ways to get her in the sack. But talking to the best friend is a tactful and subtle way of making her interested. You may get two girls fighting over you but so what, that is their problem and you will be enjoying it too much to care.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about how to pick up women and how to get women into bed.

Business Cards Will Help You Clean Up

Attracting women is all about giving them something to aim at, knowing what we know about women they are stimulated by two things, sex appeal and wealth. Well not as much wealth as it is power. It is crucial for us to be able to attract women, to know exactly what we are doing, and what we need to do to get life back in order with them.

A great way to get this and attract women is to carry around business cards, whether they are false business cards or truthful, it matters not. All that matters is the appearance of money and power, thus you get the sex appeal with it. So a business card that clearly states you are the managing director of your own company, or an import, export business, it really states your intentions.

These sorts of policies however are only relevant if you can actually manage to pull them off. And only relevant even further, if you mean only to have sex with this woman. Otherwise you will be found out in either case and end up with egg very much on your face. Something none of us want in life.

So if you have the business cards, whatever they may have on them, then it is vital you make the most of the opportunity. And know what you are talking about, otherwise you will find yourself in a position of some embarrassment, so if you are able to pull it off then be bold. If it does come off then your confidence will be greater the next time.

This confidence will make you literally clean up with the women; you will manage to get women hand over fist. It is very easy when you know how to do it, and if you can pull it off you will be the envy of your friends.

Beware however because if you do not back it up with the right facts, you will fall foul of misconception and your lies. You need to make sure that you can manage to back the story up with a believable story. Using ploys and tactics is a great way of getting women, but it won't last forever, so if you are after a relationship, then do not lie, because you will be found out. In fact if you want a relationship be yourself and stick to what you know.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about how to pick up women and how to get women into bed.

Ways to Get Women into Bed - The Top Things You Can Do to Get Her

There isn't much to finding out how to get women into bed, there's a lot of information you can get online about it. But the thing is, putting these tips into action is difficult. Here's how to make it easier for you to do so:

Be honest in your intentions.

Before you push through with your plans, make sure that you are true to yourself and know the real reason behind your intentions. Nowadays, there are many kinds of women out there and the clearer you are about what you're looking for, the more you're able to avoid unnecessary complications with them. You don't really need to lie or deceive the woman, for as long as you are true with your intentions, then everything should be easier for you.

Make Sure to Choose Well

There are women that you should take home to meet your mother and there are those that you can play with without hurting their feelings. Learning how to categorize the women you will meet will save you from a lot of trouble and gaining bad reputation. Sooner or later, the past will come to haunt you so it's best to be as careful as you can about women's feelings for hell hath no fury as that of a woman scorned, or so a popular saying goes.
 
These days, women are more open to what they want, so they really don't want those sweet nothings that men throws at them. But of course, understanding the ways on how to get women into bed should also be the same as knowing how to choose women who are also into you. So before you initiate any sweet talks to the girl you like, be sure that you are sincere with your intentions. More info on getting to know a girl in how to pick up a girl.

Be attentive.

Women will easily be enticed into going to bed with you if they also have the same intimate feelings, and the best way for this is to pay attention to their body moves. Be very conscious with the way she moves her head and flick her hair, as well as the shrugging of her shoulders, because these things would signal how they feel towards the opposite sex. Listen with your ears and not with your penis, you will go a longer way in doing so. If you want more in depth guidelines on getting women to your bed, go through how to become an alpha male review.

There is really no special formula when it comes to tempting a woman to get to bed with you. All you have to do is to just make them feel so good, to the point that she would entertain the idea of going to bed with you. Be upfront, confident and most of all, be gentle and kind, women are not playthings and they can hurt you as much as you can them.

If you want to know how to get women into bed, then you have to know how to make them feel good about being with you and being themselves when they're with you. They must like everything about you-your hair, your shirt, the way you smell and the way you make them feel. And most of all, they should also feel better with themselves when they are with you. 

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Wilting Helps No One

There comes a point in every relationship when it becomes quite hard to hold yourself back from a temptation. You find it increasingly difficult to keep yourself from being unfaithful to your partner and at times it can seem the easiest thing to do. But giving into temptation is the worst thing you can do for all parties, even if the particular person interested in you is stunningly beautiful, you need to stay away.

You relationship will inevitably fall apart, and the one you have given into will most likely not want a relationship from you after your break up. So you will be left alone and ultimately heartbroken either way, your partner is left heartbroken and the person you cheated with carries on in their meaningless life. Other situations that can arise from this can be quite troublesome and fractious.

If there is any way in which you feel like you can move away from the problems you are having in the relationship then try it. If the way in which your relationship has been going doesn't bode well then communicate with your partner, otherwise you could end up being found wanting more. Your relationship can break down quite easily after someone being unfaithful.

So you need to address the situation before it is too late, otherwise life can become quite hard with everything. Life is hard but so much easier in a relationship; you can manage your life away from your relationship, using your relationship as a stabilising force. If there is any way in which you can manage both, then give it a go because life isn't easy without either a work or relationship outlet.

Loyalty is one of the most important factors when it comes to relationships, and it is very important that you are able to remain loyal. Even when the chips are down, and someone offers you a tempting get out clause it is so important that you refrain from temptation. As a result your relationship will become stronger and your life will be better.

In some ways the five minutes of fun you could have had oversee the long term prospects you could have. But when you are looking back at your life in five years time, the thought that you were able to refrain from temptation and gave yourself a foundation for life. Make sure you don't let yourself, your partner or anyone down.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about how to pick up women and how to get women into bed.

Sexting The New Phenomenon

There is a new phenomenon amongst dating nowadays, and that is sexting. The new phenomenon involves couples having sexual relations through text. Similar to phone text or instant messaging, texting has become the new way in which to make your other half miss you. It can be quite graphic at times, and giving the tag sexting it really can be exciting for everyone involved.

It does beg the question though, that before mobile phones and the internet how couples communicated intimately when they were away from each other. Of course the answer is that they would have done it through the form of love letters. More in the way of poems and rhymes, true feelings were put more subtly than the way in which we do so today.

The only thing with texting or sexting is that it really doesn't leave a lot to the imagination. In the most part we only have 160 characters to describe and depict what we want to say, and this does not leave a lot to the English language. We abbreviate words and in some cases butcher the English language to a point of extinction.

In the way we abbreviate things nowadays, sexting really can become an interesting pastime for many couples. To make you feel awkward at work, or get you excited at a time that isn't relevant can make life a little more interesting. If there is any way in which you can spruce up a dull day at work, what better way is there than to do so with your partner.

With the speed you can now do it at, it gives you the opportunity to build up a rapport and quick response with your girlfriend. The amount of messages you can get in is something out of the ordinary. For example within ten minutes you could have sent up to ten texts within that time. And got ten responses, which really does give you some room for manoeuvre.

Sexting is something we should all try at some point; it allows us to be creative and spontaneous with our partners. And this is something that there is not enough of when it comes to life, we live somewhat laboured and uninteresting lives at points, and sprucing up isn't hard.

If there is any way in which you can build up a life of spontaneity, sexting will surely have something to do with it.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about how to pick up women and how to get women into bed.

Sport Is A Great Way To Meet Women

Sport is a fantastic way to meet women nowadays. In a time of great business and repression, a little casual sport in your local area can mean that you will meet the woman of your dreams. You will be able to do sport for relatively cheap when it comes down to it, and life will be easy once you know them through sport.

It is a great way to meet women in the light that you are meeting them on informal ground, in a way that makes you fun to be around. Friendships and relationships can be struck up quite quickly when it comes to sport, and given the fact that you are both quite athletic, sparks should fly. Whether or not you meet at the tennis club, or even spectating sport you really could strike accord.

The local tennis club really is a good place to meet the right sort of person as well, because the class system unfortunately does dictate that we need to be with people in the same class. And tennis is very much a class sport, given that golf is as well there are many country club sports where you can meet women of your age and type.

Playing soccer, or if you have kids you certainly can meet women, or maybe single parents that are divorced or whatever. In fact the sporting arena is becoming an ever present way to meet someone in this day in age, there may not be an easy cure for dating but this could be it. It is an informal way to meet as I say, and you immediately have a mutual interest.

Especially if you are meeting someone who has a child, as do you or really wants to make a go at the game you are on. You can really build a big relationship, and the chances are if it is a country club you are a member at, you will have mutual friends and a good social life. A social life that you can share and flourish in, so it is definitely worth a go at sports.

Join a country club, the worse you can do is improve your game, so why not? Give yourself a chance at meeting someone who is your type and you will be able to make life interesting. Sport and women don't generally mix, in this case however they do.

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Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about how to pick up women and how to get women into bed.

Social Media Has Ruined Relationships

How many times have you checked your Facebook today? Scrap that, how many times have you checked your girlfriend or boyfriends Facebook today? However many it is Facebook has become an incessant method of people checking up on their partners and what they have been up to. It really does cause a few problems for people and has become the root of many arguments across the world.

Why were you talking to him? Why were you not around mine you said you were busy, but you are on Facebook? The lists of arguments are endless when it comes to Facebook and the amount of arguments that people sometimes have. If you think this may apply to you then you need to do something about it before it's too late.

There are so many relationships now breaking up because of social networking sites that it really is becoming an issue. There are photos that no one likes on Facebook, and it really is a new media in terms of the media distribution between friends and being able to see pictures form the night before.

You need to chill out that is the best attitude. Before what you didn't know didn't hurt you, and you were quite happy in the ignorance of not really knowing what goes on, but you had trust. Now because of social networking sites we have a situation where we can see what went on through the photos that were taken.

This puts niggling doubts in our minds about who people are, the way in which someone is looking at our partner, amongst many others. And all of this leads us to mistrust our partners a little more, it isn't really fair to our partners however given the fact that nothing should have changed. We should still trust our partners and no matter what photos may go up realise that we still trust them.

If you can do that then it is ok for both of you to have Facebook and still be able to have a normal relationship, but if can be increasingly difficult as time goes on and problems arise. So there may be no way out of using social media but you can certainly temper it and control it.

Trust your partner all the same and it won't affect your relationship. Let it bother you and the social networking monster will eat you up.

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Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about how to pick up women and how to get women into bed.

Feeling Good Naked Is the Biggest Confidence Boost

If you feel good in your purest form then you will be happy and confident. If you can feel proud of yourself when you get out of the shower every day, and look yourself in the mirror without gasping in disbelief or embarrassment then you will be confident. You will be able to go out with your head held high and have a better night as a result.

Life is full of constant renewals of confidence. You will either get knocked back, or ego boosters everyday in your life, but if you are able to enjoy looking at yourself whilst in the nude, none of them will affect you in a negative way. You won't have to go on shopping sprees to make yourself feel better, and although you still make an effort you know you are happy with your figure.

This is one of the rarest occurrences in human life; you will struggle to find any one of your friends that is happy with how they look naked. And if you do, you won't be able to distinguish them that easily. That is because so many people put a brave face on their problems and fears, so it is very important that you are able to feel good yourself.

If you don't feel happy naked, then maybe it's time to join the gym or cut down on the food you eat, in order to help you get laid. If you can do it without this then great, but do not be afraid to join the gym, and work hard. It is imperative that you feel good in your own body, feel good in the skin you are in.

If you do feel good in your own skin then you will be irresistible to women. You can gear yourself up to be confident, but pure confidence is the best type. You will be able to give yourself a great shot at getting any girl you would like, and any girl you go for will quiver in her boots.

Obviously the majority of sexual activity is conducted naked, so it can be very important to look good naked. And what's more you need to feel good naked. This way you will not hold back during sex, and you will have no real fears as such when it comes to having sex. Especially in the way they perceive your appearance.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about how to pick up women and how to get women into bed.

Justification of All Those Years

Patience is a virtue in love. You wait and wait and at times you feel you won't meet anyone in your life, well not someone you truly love anyway. But if you wait it out you will be able to find the person your dreams. It will be a justification of all those years of waiting patiently for the girl of your dreams and all your dreams will be vindicated.

Harbouring your dreams and not rushing into the first thing you lay your eyes on is hard. It negates every basic instinct we have, we are born to settle down and reproduce. But waiting for someone who's your true love is a huge weight to bear on your shoulders. There are no easy ways to wait it out, and it can be a war of attrition between your will and you desire.

If you can win the battle then you will most likely be happy in the long run. You will be able to give yourself the best possible chance of being happy by waiting it out. Waiting it out is the hardest thing to do, we are impatient by our very nature as humans but sometimes we have to fight our basic instincts.

Living life to the full is another problem. We struggle to get ourselves up for every day at times, the struggle of life proving too much to bear. But the thought of being happy with someone you truly love should be enough to get you out of bed at all times.

You will live life happily and throughout your life know what a struggle life can be. For this reason you will appreciate your happiness all the more, we don't truly know the value of something until it we have reached our lowest point.

Looking in the past prevents us from moving forward with our life, and as such it becomes hugely important that we are always looking to the future. It is very easy to get sucked in to the realities of the past but by not looking into the future and how happy we can be by working on it.

You will be justified in your actions by being patient and working on yourself for the future. If you can work on yourself and hope that you will meet the love of your life, then you almost certainly will. So work on your future to deliver your woman.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about how to pick up women and how to get women into bed.

Like a Bridge Over Troubled Water

Many of our friends are there for us because we have mutually platonic relationships with them, but others that we have are friends with us because they want something more. They are always there for us when we need them, and always around to build us back up again.

When we get caught up in choppy waters there is always time for them to be our bridge over the troubled water ahead. We give them the same back in return but many of our friends that do this for us, will be doing so out of strong feelings for us. These can be hard to deal with if we do not feel the same way, but at times it can be crucial for us to take these friends to the next level.

Relationships with friends obviously come with risks attached but there can also be greater rewards for everyone involved. Life is rocky and the ones that are there for us, always under our noses are the ones we need to keep close to us. They are the ones that will keep us by their side in our darkest hour and take time to include us in their finest.

There may not be any easy way to build up a friendship into a relationship, and a lot of the time it can just happen so why try to build it up. Don't hit on your existing friends hoping to get a reaction from the, but don't rule it out. Some of the best relationships I know have been built upon friendship and some of the worst have too.

It can divide groups, rip apart friendships that have existed for years, but most of the time it is good. Life is good and whilst you're together everything seems to just work out. So if you have a friend that gives you your bridge over troubled water then this is the best way forward for you to stick with.

You will find a dependable partner in them, and provide yourself with someone who truly cares about you, someone who really connects with you. This is so rare that you need to pounce on it whilst you can. You obviously need to be attracted to them in the first place but as you get to know someone better looks can matter less. A bridge over troubled water is a great thing to have, marry the provider.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about how to pick up women and how to get women into bed.

You Need to Win Your Girl Over

There are of course many days to win a girl over, many different ways in which to win the girl of your dreams over. But the hard work begins when you start your relationship. A fine balance of freedom and trust mixed with commitment and love will give you the ultimate blend for maintaining a relationship.

If there is love in the relationship that will help at first but to maintain the love is the essential problem to solve. You need to find out how your relationship works with your girl, whether or not they react better to arguing or talking. Some of the time women surprisingly react well to arguing, they like confrontation as well as a little bit of drama in their lives.

Some women find it hard to stay on an even keel; they like to have a bit of excitement in life and living life in urban bliss. Women like their lives to be somewhat of a soap opera, they like to feel like the centre of their own universe and plot with all the cast being devoted to them. The girlfriend show is a piece you are integral to but you will never be the centre of attention and if you want to remain part of it you will acknowledge that.

Other women like you to pander to them; they like to play the innocent game of making you jealous without realising it. But they know exactly what they are doing so do not be fooled by any tales of different, if there is any way you can make her jealous in return do so, because you will shock her. And shock will make her putty in your hands; you will be able to get away with anything.

Other girls don't like this however, they like their life to be normal and love the 2.4 children lifestyle. You will be pleasing these girls with no dramas; you need to be happy at just getting on with life, going to work and coming home again. The weekends are when you come to life but you will only see your family friends and go to barbeques.

Your life will be cosy and happy but short of excitement so if you are able to deal with that then great. But if not then you need  to stay away from these girls because you will be bored senseless.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about how to pick up women and how to get women into bed.

Strike Whilst the Irons Hot

Make sure you strike when the irons hot, you need to keep the girl in your mind and more importantly keep you in her mind. In order to do this you need to strike whilst the irons hot. Make your intentions known early and make sure the girl knows you do not want to be just friends. Otherwise you will be in that friend zone forever. And once in there it is most probably fatal.

You won't get out of there easily, you will have to fight long and hard to cast her aspersions elsewhere and get her focused on you. You need to make sure that you are able to stay in the woman's mind long enough to ensure that you have a chance of bagging her. If you set your targets on her then make sure you deliver.

You need to be swift and adventurous and when you strike deliver otherwise you can flatter to deceive. And no-one likes flattering to deceive; you need to make sure that you are able to be funny, interesting and mysterious all at the same time. If you don't manage to do this then it won't matter if you struck when the iron is hot, you won't be getting anywhere.

And who knows this could be the girl of your dreams, it could be the girl that you end up with but if you aren't prepared or ready then you are never going to know. It may not be the girl of your dreams and you may be wasting your time but if you don't give it a chance then how will you ever know. You owe it to yourself to give it a go at the very least.

And striking whilst the irons hot is the best way of doing so. Don't hang around waiting for the world to go by, make sure you are able to get into the girl's good books right away. If you don't manage to do that then as I say you will be struggling for quite some time. In fact very rarely will you get out of the friend zone and onto the next level.

So there you go you need to strike early, make your feelings known your presence felt and you will give yourself the best chance of success. No quarter given you need to be ruthless, be wild and adventurous and you will be in for the time of your life.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about how to pick up women and how to get women into bed.