Be A Player

The best way to get women in life is to make the most of it and be a player, if you are a player then you have to abide by certain rules and there have to be certain things that you need to do in order to make the best of it. So if you believe that you have what it takes to be a player then it really can pay for you to get involved as a player and get as many women as you can.

But certain rules have to be adhered to and there needs to be certain rules that you apply to because if you cannot make the best of the situation you have in the short term then you will not be the best of players. You need to be able to cut a girl loose if you are able to and be able to get yourself into the right frame of mind if you can otherwise the whole player escapade will fall before it's even up and running.

Don't go overboard and want a relationship, you need to make sure that both parties want exactly the same out of the process and that both of you can just pull yourselves apart before you even go for anything. Meaning that if you cannot get everything you need out of a situation then you will end up being the one who got played, and a player that gets played does not get laid.

So it is therefore crucial to the game that you sleep with a girl no more than twice and move on to the next conquest, never exchange real phone numbers and never show her where you live. Her place or a hotel, these rules are very important and a fake name always can help but that is the extremist of circumstances and is only for the most committed.

If you believe in yourself and your abilities to get what you need from a woman then it is vitally important that you can make the most of every girl you sleep with. Each one unique but you have the ability to get what you want from them every time. You need to leave them feeling satisfied and actually leave yourself not wanting anymore. Milk a situation for every think you can and then get out, that is a player's philosophy and it works.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about seducing women and how to pick up beautiful women.

 

Lust Is Normal

Lust may be one of the seven deadliest sins but it is poised among all of us waiting to strike in our weakest of moments. It is a normal occurrence for us to be in a settled relationship to be then unsettled by an attractive outsider that upsets the equilibrium of our everyday life. But it is whether we act on it that decides what kind of person we are, or what kind of relationship we are in.

Unless you look like big foot's toe, you will eventually come across someone who likes who you are. Sometimes you will come across these people when you are single and can do something about it, but more often than not and in accordance with sod's law they approach us when we are happy with someone.

Some of these people who come across you are not even worth a second glance, but there will be one gem amongst all the jagged rock, and the choice you have to make is to whether the gem is worth the plunge. Is it worth ruining everything you have with your partner now? Is it worth all the aggravation it will cause amongst your mutual friends?

All the secrets that go with it, the one friend that knows you have been unfaithful and all the ties that go with it. If you do not go with your gut and take the gem up on their offer will you wonder what if for the rest of your relationship? Is this the one chance that you have, part of the plan that has been set out for you? it really depends on what you believe of course, but timing is everything and if the timing is wrong surely you have to resist don't you? That is if you are in love of course?

And all of a sudden little cracks start to appear in the relationship you are currently in, previously small irrelevant problems are now niggling doubts in your mind as to if you have done the right thing or not. In this instance we are talking about the person of your dreams approaching you and you have to decide whether it is worth chasing your dream or not, or whether it is just plain old lust?

These occurrences are rare however, you don't come across these everyday maybe just once in a lifetime, what do you do now?

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about seducing women and how to pick up beautiful women.

Spontaneity Is Important

Spontaneity in relationships is more important than ever. With the world getting faster and time becoming ever more important nowadays it is very important that you make the most of it and be spontaneous from time to time. And this means that you need to take your girl away from everyday life every now and then. Keep things simple and straight up but make sure that she will enjoy the trip away.

A great way into the good books of all women is to make sure that you make her friends jealous of your relationship. Because if you think that you have treated her to a new trip away somewhere then it is very important that one of her friends is not going to out do you in some pertinent way. In fact it is very crucial that you make every effort to get yourself ahead and every effort to get yourself lay time and time again.

Romance is dead in many eyes and if you can prove that wrong then you will get yourself ahead in many quarters. In fact there needs to be big improvement all round and you need to get yourself into the right frame of mind when it comes to getting what you need out of life. If there is any way in which you believe you are able to get yourself ahead then seize it.

But being spontaneous and romantic is perhaps the easiest option when it comes down to it, the easiest way that is of getting yourself ahead. So ensure that you know exactly where you are taking her and more importantly in what way it is going to get you ahead. Because if she starts bragging and showing off to her friends your life is going to become even greater.

Cooked dinners, sex anywhere and everywhere in the house and an increasing amount of lads nights watching the football, what more could you want? And you will have such an easy life if you manage to surprise her so it is important for you to get that and if you learn what it is that she wants then it is incredibly important that you manage to give her that.

So make sure that you know what you want and then be spontaneous in order to get there. Your life made simple by a little spontaneity. So just do it and get paid.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about seducing women and how to pick up beautiful women.

 

Meeting The Family

The biggest step of learning whether you are actually in love with someone is whether you have met their family or not. And when you have me them how was their response, there is no way in which you can get yourself ahead in love if you haven't met the family yet, so if you don't know anything that you get from your relationship then your time together is a farce.

If you don't know everything about one another but you have met the family already then you actually are further along the line than most. Because if you don't get everything you need out of the relationship then the time you have together will not mean anything at all. Knowing that you see each other in a way that brings about improvement means that you won't learn anything about each other.

If you are the only girl that he has ever brought home then you could quite possibly be the one, but if you don't know how many he's brought home before you then make sure that you are wary. Learn what you want from a relationship and get everything out of it you desire, learn everything about each other and make it an exciting experience for both of you.

Get your life together and learn exactly what it is that you want before you take them home to the family and if you cannot manage to get yourself together before you meet them you can always know it's hard. If you do that before you let them meet the family then the time you have together will be false and nowhere near pure enough to build a serious relationship.

When you get life in the way of your family then you will end up really hurting each other in a way like no one has before. And the friends that you have, the mutual friends, will end up getting hurt more than anyone, they will end up stuck in the middle and making each other feel as though they cannot get ahead out of it.

They can only lose and the way in which you have carried your relationship you will never manage to know exactly what it is that you want, and you will never get everything you need out of the relationship, so think things through before you actually let him meet your family. Be certain before it's too late.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about seducing women and how to pick up beautiful women.

Has The Sunset On Your Relationship

Relationships are hard they go through many different phases in a short space of time, but there comes a certain amount of time when you realise that the sun has very much set on your relationship. There won't be any moves forward because you are both drifting apart and if you don't shake things up in a very malign way then you will not get the best out of your time together, in fact you would definitely break up after a while.

If you don't get yourself ahead in the way of life then you will never quite feel satisfied when it comes down to it. You will need to move your way back up the ladder, and if you know how to get back into the swing of things then good luck to you, but the chances are that you will need to shake things up drastically in a positive way to get the sun shining back on your relationship.

Communication is a great start but if you don't think you can get the best out of the whole situation then you really won't. And the girl of your dreams being the girl of your dreams deserves more, if you don't think that life is worth that much then you really need to get the most out of it all. So here goes in getting you back on track. Make sure you know exactly what you are getting yourself in for.

Belied to the fact that you love each other there really isn't much of a chance that you will stay together if you cannot manage to get your head around the fact that you are falling apart. Acknowledgement is half the battle and if you can get yourself out of bed in the morning with your head held high then you have half a chance, but if you don't then your day in the sun is over.

So if you think that you can get yourself together, so learn to be with each other and get yourself out of the mode where it seems all you can do is argue. You may have a chance if you can get yourself out of that mode and begin to look up instead of down, so learn what you need to know and make sure that you get yourself out of it. So learn what you need to do and do it, because the sun has ont set yet.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about seducing women and how to pick up beautiful women.

Diamonds Really Are a Girl's Best Friend

Anyone that tells you that diamonds do not make women happy really doesn't know what they are talking about. The way in which diamonds can light up a woman's face is something of marvel, something of a masked marvel as well given the fact that they don't want you to find out how much they love them in order to keep everything on an even keel.

If you found out how much your girl loved diamonds, you would do anything wrong and then come back with the salvation of diamonds. It is a flawless plan and something that women know will work, so in order to keep you from using it as a weapon they mask its success and make sure that you do not get everything you want out of them, god forbid you had the advantage for a change.

So to ensure that you can still use these as a weapon you need to make the most of subtly dropping diamonds into your relationship without her realising that you are using it as a ploy to woo her even more, you need to ensure that you get the best out of your relationship, and in order to do so it can be crucial that you get the timing right.

Timing is everything, you need to make sure that your life is just ebbing along as usual, and you are getting everything you need out of life with your girl, and then throw the diamond into the party. You will become even more popular with her than you already are, and she will not think you have done anything wrong because you are giving her gifts when things are going well.

Throw it into the ring when you are having a dispute and she will think you are doing something wrong. But if the timing is perfect then you should really get out of life everything you ever wished for. Bedroom antics will go your way and everything will be in your favour so the best man would have won, and you can continue forward.

So diamonds really can get you out of the shit, as well as making the most of every situation you have at hand, you will get the best out of your days together, and although diamonds are expensive you will get the best out of the situation.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about seducing women and how to pick up beautiful women.

One Way Traffic

There comes a time in everyone's life when they are on the wrong end of a love triangle, or just on the wrong end of love. You find yourself in a position that no one likes to find themselves in, your love is unrequited and it is all one way traffic. It  is a very disconcerting feeling and you find that your life isn't quite as ripe as you once thought.

The process is hard because you become excited when you think of life with them, and what it might be like but you then become deflated when you realise just how far you are from it. If you know what you want that is great because you know a hell of a lot more than most. But not being able to get it brings about a whole other dimension of dilemmas.

You being to ask yourself questions, why doesn't he want me? Why doesn't he think that I'm good enough for him? And there are two ways you can deal with this situation. You can either bury your head in the sand, feel sorry for yourself and just mooch about, or you can do something about it. You can show that you are better than him, and get up every day determined to prove him wrong and make yourself happy.

And after six months the difference will be staggering. You will probably find that you have found someone if you got up off your back side and did something proactive every day, whereas those that did nothing may are in the same rut they were in previously and therefore nowhere better off than they were before.

So whichever you do is up to you, it is obviously easier to bury your head in the sand but the right thing to do is there to be seen by all. Get yourself up every day with the right attitude, know what you want out of life, and if you do not get it first of all ensure that you get it the next time. Move yourself up the ladder and get back on track.

If you can really know what you want out of life, then you do not realise just how lucky you are in life. Because you have found your path, you just haven't quite seized it yet, so get on it and seize it to make the most of your life.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about seducing women and how to pick up beautiful women.

What Do You Look For At The Relationship Supermarket?

Some might see this as a strange analogy but when it comes to love it is almost like going on a weekly shop. We all look for what we like whilst shopping, and avoid the things that leave a sour taste in our mouth; this is none to different to what we do in dating. We all steer away from traits that don't leave us with great feelings, and we are attracted to certain things.

Some things that we like in the supermarket will have a negative effect on us in some ways, at least in the long term. But the short term effect on us is so great that it requires us to actually take part in it. Other more dull things such as bread and milk are essentially dull, but the dull things give us the foundation for the rest of our lives.

In relationships we compare these sorts of things to loyalty and kindness, they won't actually get us into bed very quickly, but in the long term we will be better off for it. The irresistible taste that is sweetness, such as chocolate or a tasty cake is something we can compare to sex appeal. Knowing that this is going to be a great experience means we have to do it, but even with all this we know it is not sustainable in the long run.

So a balance is also expected in this sort of arena, but you cannot go around and by everything in the store it simply isn't sustainable or affordable. The money you spend in the supermarket is represented by the feelings and heart you put into a relationship. You only have so much to give, and you always have to leave some to yourself, because if you cannot do this you will be left in ruin.

So knowing everything you already know about the supermarket you have no excuse in where you end up. Every now and then it is healthy to have a dabble in something you are not used to, a random change is sometimes beneficial and it may be the way to go. But you also have to ask yourself if fit is actually the right way to go at times.

Be balanced, healthy and most importantly happy, and if you can get all three then you really will get yourself ahead in the game.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about seducing women and how to pick up beautiful women.

Top Dating Techniques

Give two compliments above the neck line and then insult her. This way you build up a rapport with a woman whilst at the same time she remains at your mercy; this provides an irreversible cocktail of lust and attraction that'll make her weak at the knees. If you believe you can get away with this then you will, so follow the tips now and you will get yourself ahead.

Make sure that you are able to compliment her on subjects that are about her intelligence or her looks. You need to ensure that you do not compliment her on her breasts or physical attributes. A great start is the eyes, say what beautiful eyes she has, or what a beautiful smile she possesses; this will give you the upper hand straight away.

The compliments you have just given her ensure that you make a positive impression on her, in a way that makes you better than her, but also endears you to her. If you can make the most of this then you will seal the deal. But don't do what most men do, do not continue to compliment her, or continue to lavish her with praise, instead insult her.

The reason for this, is that it completely confuses her, it baffles her to lengths that will leave her with such mystery and bewilderment, that she will be putty in your hands. Don't insult her about anything that is going to hurt her feelings, just something light and weak that will offend her but not scar her.

This way you become intriguing to her, you show yourself up in a light that makes you out to be both attractive and charming. If you are able to get yourself ahead in this way then you can get any woman you want. And whilst your friends continue to strike out you will reap the rewards of being a step ahead.

Your friends will look up at you with envious eyes, but do not milk it. The best of men are only so because of the friends around them, don't share your secret but make sure that you get the best out of a situation all the time. Have your friends by your side, and your women beneath you, the best of both worlds if you like.

So make sure you get the insult right, and you will be able to get what you want.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about seducing women and how to pick up beautiful women.

There Are Two Different Types Of Women In This World

There are two different types of women in this world, those that you can shag and leave, and those that you can shag and snuggle. Finding the difference between these two, and recognising it before it is too late is a subtle and sought after skill. You need to learn which girls you snuggle meaning they are likely to be relationship contenders, and those you can leave after sex, the ones that are eligible for one night stands.

If you can find the difference between these then you will go through life without heartbreak and loneliness, but if you can't everything you hit, and every way you turn will be a dead end. You will get rid of the girls that could have made you happy, and end up settling for the ones that leave with a sense of ill achievement.

You will never find it easy to work out the girls that you snuggle and those that you leave but the best way to tell is how they make you feel. If you feel under pressure when you are with them, or your heart is beating in a way that is unfamiliar to you, then that means you should be snuggling this girl after sex as you more than likely love her.

But if a girl makes you feel as if things are easy, and that you can make the world go round with or without her then she is probably someone you leave. You will of course find girls that are willing for this to be the case, but then again there are those that seek more than just a one night stand, and these are the ones you need to be aware of.

If you feel as though you will hurt a girls feelings by leaving her after sex then you probably shouldn't. But knowing you will and not caring are two totally different sentiments altogether; you need to establish just how you feel before you even get involved with any girl preferably.

But this is not practical in most circumstances and means that you should actually be moving on with your life if you cannot decipher. So get with as many people as possible and stay with the ones that make you feel alive, like every moment counts and that every moment means something to you. learn the difference between the two.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about seducing women and how to pick up beautiful women.

Broad Spectrum Of Tastes

There is no such thing as taste nowadays, for me there is many different types of women that I like. I like dark girls, blonde girls and girls that aren't even that attractive, for me you see it is now all about personality, and being with someone who gets you. You see if you can manage this, then your life will be easier and you will get someone who is just meant for you.

Knowing what you know about yourself, and who knows you better than yourself right? So when it comes down to it, it is crucial that you get someone who compliments you as a person. Otherwise you could end up with someone who is attractive yes, but does not compliment you in the slightest. So when it comes down to it is looks or feelings more important?

It is hard to say, and it depends on taste when it comes to these sorts of things. But knowing that life is short, we need to keep each other company in the best way possible, and if you are having conversations with someone who just gets you that works. What doesn't work is when you are with someone you can't have great conversations with, you may end up content with life, but no communication causes problems.

So if you are struggling to make things match up when it comes to your relationship, then maybe it is worth having a look at your relationship. So looking at your relationship from the outside is the most important thing, you need to make the most of life and get yourself into the best possible position to do so.

If you are with someone who doesn't get you, then it can become very difficult to get what you want out of life. This is why you see so many people who work together engaging in relationships, they feel as if they should be together because they have a lot in common. If you can manage to find someone who has a lot about them that reminds you of you, you are probably onto a winner.

So working hard at a relationship is crucial, because nothing comes easy, especially when it comes to relationships. You need to be getting the best out of life in this short time, and make sure that you are able to be with someone that you love.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about seducing women and how to pick up beautiful women.

Get Lost In The Moment Of Great Life

In life I strongly believe you need to grasp the best moment, and make sure that you hang onto it. So if you find yourself in a moment, or maybe lost in the moment with someone you think is meant to be with you, and then cherish it because it is going to be very hard to recapture it. You won't be able to work as hard at getting the moments, in fact these moments very often come around when you least expect them to.

You owe it to yourself to get lost in a moment, losing sight of who is around you and making waves to the way you are acting. You need to make sure that you are able to get the most out of the moment, and enjoy it with your partner otherwise you could end up being right out of the moment in the end. Make sure that wherever you are, you recall it and you will be able to get the most out of your days.

If you can manage to do so then you will enjoy the greatest of adventures when it comes to it. You will get lost in each other forever, and give yourself a great shot at being the one for each other. Trust me when I say there is no greater feeling in the world than when you find your soul mate, and manage to get the best out of life together.

Knowing each other as well as you do can also lead to a great way of life, you can work each other out and build a solid future together. So you see getting lost in a moment with someone is one of the greatest things you can do, it could ultimately be life changing. Knowing you are able to be the best of all your friends in your life gives you great satisfaction.

But it also makes you want to be happy for your friends if they can find the same happiness as you. Knowing what is going on in your life your friends will be happy for you, and will give you every chance to make sure that your life is great.

A great life is so much more than a good life, and knowing what you know about your partner you need to harness greatness. So get lost in the moment and work hard with each other.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about seducing women and how to pick up beautiful women.

Ladies Dream About Their Weddings, Men Don't

Given the way that women think, and maybe over think their wedding day, you would be forgiven for thinking that the man of their dreams had already been found. But women conversely to men just do not talk about the same things in life, and certainly don't think about weddings in the same manner, or to such lengths.

So when you actually meet a man, and he decides to propose, give him a break if he decides that he doesn't actually have to take part in the actual planning of it. You see he thinks that if he stays out of the way, and remains silent when it comes to it, he will have a much more happy time than he did before hand.

It is not ignorance, but kindness, so take that it into consideration when it comes to the planning. How he proposed is really the big question though. Did he take you out for a meal? Maybe he did it at a family party? Whatever way he did it, says a lot about your future together. If he did it in a way, he thought you would appreciate then you most probably have a gem on your hands.

If the ring was something he knew you would like that is another tick in his box, and if the location of the proposal was a favourite place, or meant something he gets all three ticks. Obviously the relationship goes without saying that it needs to be top draw but you could also be forgiven for thinking that people would want to get married to fix a problem.

If none of that applies to you then you are with someone who is going to appreciate you for who you are, and make you feel incredibly special. Knowing what you know about each other already, there is no reason for the rest of your relationship to be any different after you are married. So make sure you remember what got you to the point of marriage.

Otherwise you could be like so many other couples when it comes down to it. They forget why they are together, and have lost sight of what got them together in the first place. So you need to make sure that you remain doing the things you want to do, and if you keep each other happy then that is the way forward with life.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about seducing women and how to pick up beautiful women.

A Day For Each Other

In your relationship you should always be sure to make a day a week for each other; you need to be getting back into shape with each other. Make sure that you make the time for each other in order to give it the best chance possible. Knowing what you know about each other then you really need to make a day for each other, you can do something for a day that you both enjoy.

Maybe it should be a weekend day if you can, and you can make the most of what you know when it comes to it. This way you will always make sure that you are able to give yourself the best chance possible in your relationship. Knowing that you both like a certain event is power and you are able to enjoy each other's company even further.

There is so much speed in life nowadays that we struggle to make time for the ones we love. So buck the trend and make the most of what you can get from the day, this way you will make sure that you are able to slow down with each other. Way too much is done without the consideration of everyone in your relationship nowadays, so consult each other first.

But knowing exactly what you need to know about each other means that you are able to get the most out of your relationship. The relationship is very important when it comes to your life; half of your efforts go into maintaining the relationship in the first place. So if you cannot make the most of your relationship then what is the point?

Living life to the full is what it is all about and there needs to be certain sacrifices made to ensure this. Given the way in which we as people are able to give each other the things we need to do, and then it could be the best way to get yourself back into the realm of happiness.

The one you love will appreciate the time together and you will be able to work your way into an even better relationship. So know your audience when it comes to your relationship, know what makes her tick, and then go with it. Go with the flow but make time for each other, if you are able to do that then make sure you maintain it.

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Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about seducing women and how to pick up beautiful women.

When The Package Is Pretty No One Cares What's Inside

When you see a beautiful woman what do you automatically think? Do you think I wonder what she is like as a person, whether she is caring, brave or courageous. Or maybe she is a bitter hardnosed person that nobody really gets on with. None of these thoughts enter our heads however; we simply want to get to know her on the basis of her looks.

It's a skin deep attraction but it is something we are all guilty of and will be forever guilty of. We simply cannot help ourselves when it comes to getting to know beautiful women. There is something innate in us that mean we have to get to know this person with the hope of making them ours. It sounds very coarse and perverted but we do it anyway and what's more take pride in it.

Looks are unfortunately the biggest driving force in getting to know women; they are what we look for when it comes to love. It's the first thing we look for anyway, it may not be the most pure of objectives but we are at times like children, we want exactly what we cannot have.

The grass is always greener when you see someone attractive; you want to know what it would be like to be with them. Even if we have a partner already, we sometimes give into the temptation and if nothing else we put ourselves in a dangerous situation. We don't exactly cover ourselves in glory and even though we may not cheat, we really don't help ourselves.

When you get a Christmas present that is decorated beyond belief there is a part of you that does not want to open it. You do not want to be ruining what is on the outside by learning what's on the inside doesn't do it justice. A beautiful woman has the same effect on us somewhat, and half the time we do not really want to get to know a girl before we date her.

We will pursue her, blind to the idea of what she is really like. It may be an immature attitude towards dating, but we all do it. Being shallow is unfortunately what we are all guilty of on some level. We do not look at things beyond the face value at most points, when really for our own good we should do so.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about seducing women and how to pick up beautiful women.

What Women Shouldn't Wear On A Date?

Never as a woman, go into a date unprepared or unsure of what you exactly need to achieve from the night. You need to ensure that you get everything you can out of a date and that you don't embarrass yourself in the meantime. You need to make sure that you give yourself every opportunity of success on the date.

Never wear anything to revealing on a first date. First impressions are everything and you need to make the best first impression possible. To do this wear something stunning, something that is going to take his breath away on an initial sight of you. However make sure that you do not make too much of an effort when it comes to the date, where something classy and casual, but stunning nonetheless.

Your date needs to be put back on his toes right away; he needs to feel like he is the one that needs to impress you. You can do this by wearing something classy, and making him feel like you are out of his league. If you do this then you have the edge in the whole dating arena. It really is something you want as well because you can dictate the date to your terms.

By displaying yourself as being classy you really do give yourself every chance of coming out of the date on top. If there is a positive outcome on the date and you find that you like the guy you have dated, then you need to make sure you hammer down the advantage.

What you shouldn't wear however is anything to brassy. Never wear dangly earrings that make you look cheap and common. It is important that you make sure you can keep this date on his toes and keep him interested. Believe it or not you actually have the advantage in the dating arena initially but you can lose it very quickly indeed.

Never wear too much perfume, because that smacks of desperation and there is no way you will be going home with him. Well certainly not go home under the right circumstances anyway; if there is a subtle blend of perfume it will classily compliment your look as well.

Getting it right on the first date is crucial, and to get it right you need to follow these few little indicators. An advantage you can get will help you out.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about seducing women and how to pick up beautiful women.

Those Three Little Words

Why is it that three small little words can turn the most stubborn and strong minded of individuals weak at the knees? We can be coasting along without a care in the world and then be sprung along in a relationship when those three little words are first dropped into a conversation. Suddenly the vice grip of a relationship tightens around our neck and we feel as though we cannot breathe.

The words are of course I Love you, but three little words, 8 characters plant little tiny seeds of doubt in our minds. We struggle to put everything into context anymore and struggle to comprehend how we should deal with the situation. What is it we should do when we hear these three words?

Nobody in this life can really deal with the comprehension of the three words, and no three words have such greater meaning in our life. So why can we not deal with it as well as we should be able to. It doesn't change anything in a relationship; well at least it shouldn't on the face value of it. We are still with the same person, the same things are still in place so why the issue?

It is because we can all of a sudden see our dreams and aspirations vanishing with the thought of becoming too committed to something. If there was any sense of perspective at this time, of course we would notice that life is still the same and we can still be ourselves. Our dreams and aspirations are not over and in fact we have becoming even luckier to be able to share it with someone.

But of course we are not pragmatic and reasonable people at this stage. We no longer see things through clear glasses; everything we do is tainted to a point of disruption and hardship. Why is it we can no longer feel as if the doldrums of life are fine, and we are able to remain as before living life to the full.

If you are in love then of course life becomes a little easier. If it is mutual love then the three words may not scare you, but the realism of what has just happened means that very few can remain the same. The vice grip that love has you under is not something to underestimate, live life to the full and don't let three words ruin everything.

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larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about seducing women and how to pick up beautiful women.

The Fact Of Dating

When you finally get that girl to go out with you that you have seeked and pursued for so long it is important that you follow one golden rule. Obviously there is never cheating or doing something that would endanger the relationship, but behind that there is a hidden gem.

Never talk about her friends in a way that makes you out to be attracted to them. If they ask you a question about how attractive she is, even if you think she is attractive, lie. Make sure she never finds out because it will plant seeds in her mind that will inevitably grow into bigger problems. Believe me when I say that you really will regret telling the truth in this instance.

When looking through Facebook photos or photos on her phone with your girlfriend never say she looks nice or any positive comments. Any way in which you could send the suspicion that you may even be remotely attracted to one of her friends is a definite no. The same has to be said about family members.

You have to remember and recognise the fact that these girls compare themselves to each other; sub consciously or not, every single day. And any indication that their friends are superior from the guy they are with is seen as a huge insult and viewed as disrespectful. And guess who they take it out on when they learn of this betrayal?

They could never of course say anything to their friends about their behaviour so you will bear the full force of their anger and hate when it comes down to it. Never be truthful about her friends even when she is not there it is just not worth the risk. On a serious note as well it could really ruin your relationship on almost every level.

She will always be conscious of when she is around you, innocent looks and comments will be turned into voices of discontent. You will never be fully trusted around her, and even the most secure minded and confident of women may suspect you think about them during sex. Is it really that bad the comments you have made?

Of course not, but it is viewed as treason, you are her man and you are going to stay that way. So do yourself a favour and make sure you do not utter any words that could land you in trouble.

About the Author

larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about seducing women and how to pick up beautiful women.

The Bedroom Doesn't Have To Be Boring

Too much is made of the missionary position. So many people used to think the missionary position as the only way you should really have sex, but let's be honest it doesn't give you the most pleasure and isn't the only way we know. So why do we do it? Because in the beginning it is the easiest way to express ourselves in the bedroom department, we will quite happily get down to it if it meant that we don't have to expose ourselves and our passions to readily.

But as time goes on we will explore even further in the bedroom, we will quite happily move to a slightly different position once we get into our comfort zones. But why don't we do this earlier, when the passion levels are that much more intense. Try an adventurous position and you will even find you become closer for it, and then the missionary position comes with an extra advantage of closeness and intimacy.

Some positions are still seen as too taboo for every day couples, and you can understand why in certain aspects of life. But why make the bedroom boring when it is the only place you are ever really private and intimate with each other completely. Try those fantasies you have been wanting to try, and be open minded to certain things.

You are both already seeing each other in your purest form and if you are not running a mile then you must be comfortable with each other. Use these comforts to your advantage, make each other aware of what you want to do and explore it. What have you got to lose? Absolutely nothing, don't do anything that makes either of you too uncomfortable but really try to satisfy each other.

The bedroom does not have to be a boring place, and in fact it is probably the one place you should feel most comfortable in. If you want the use of additional toys and props then why not try it out, the world is really your oyster when it comes to sex. If you don't speculate you won't accumulate, if you stay too much in your comfort zone you won't get everything you desire.

So pull down that stiff upper lip and let yourself go. Give yourself a new lease on life and work hard to help each other. You never know you might enjoy it.

About the Author

larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about seducing women and how to pick up beautiful women.

Living In The Moment Of Your Life

Living in the moment is what life is all about. You cannot do anything about your past, and you cannot yet affect your future, but what you can do is live life in the moment. You can take advantage of every moment, especially romantically, and do your best to make yourself happy right now.

You can make every moment count, and take advantage of every romantic possibility you possibly could. If you like a girl, then tell her, what have you got to lose? Of course nothing is the answer to this. You need to tell the girl of your dreams exactly how you feel, and if you can do that successfully or not, you are making the most of every situation.

Everything you have done in the past has led you to where you are now, and everything you do now will lead you to where you are going in the future. It is a scary thought that we are the master of our own fate, and what's worse the master of any mistakes that we have made in the past. But we should seize the power, and create a positive future for ourselves by making the most of every moment.

If we are making the most of every moment now, then just imagine how far we could get in the future. The girl of your dreams changes everything also, if you meet her and you know you have then life becomes very different. You struggle to comprehend or realise the size of other matters in life.

You reality becomes quite grey if you like; there are certain things that you don't know too much about. Your emotions are running high, and everything is exciting but confusing at the same time. Because of this you throw everything into your relationship and move away from other things in your life that may include work of friends.

Of course you do not want to be repeating this problem over and over, but it is ok to focus on your relationship in the moment. If it will make things better in the future then why not sacrifice a little bit now. It will not be an easy teething period for your friends, and work may get a little frustrated with you but live in the moment make the most of it.

Life's hard, so make it easier and live for today, not tomorrow.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about seducing women and how to pick up beautiful women.