Shouldn't You Have Proposed By Now?

In a relationship there comes a time when you get so deep into it, that the only thing left to do before children is to get married. But some of you are not ready, normally men, and you are lamented for it. This isn't fair however, as the realisation of marriage is something that is so important, and it is a big part of your life, a defining moment in your life.

So a decision like this is not one that should be taken lightly, there should not be anyone who takes this decision lightly because you won't be able to move forward. The marriage would be a guilt trip all over the time you are married, and you will struggle to get yourself into the mode of blissfully happy marriage.

But still these burning questions and these burning pressures that family and friends alike put on you, mean that you are not able to settle into the relationship as well as you could do. You cannot relax in the relationship, knowing that every move you make is put under scrutiny, is watched with everyone wondering why you haven't proposed.

Then the reasons behind why you haven't popped the question being to manifest themselves into a web of deceitful lies. Everyone believes that you could be cheating on your partner, you may have another love child somewhere, or you are moving away. Ok they are a bit extreme but the essence of what I am trying to say is there.

In fact it is imperative that you do not let the burning rumours get anywhere near your relationship. Don't let them get under your skin, just make sure that you are able to move forward with life, and not let the family dictate your relationship. Women's families are always worse than male families, because they expect more.

They want their little girl to marry the man of her dreams, and the pressure you are put under to deliver is overwhelming. You are put under scrutiny by the father of your girlfriend to be a good man, whilst your family is just happy that you are happy. This does not make her family cruel, but it does however mean that you need to be sure of your decision to marry their daughter.

There is no point dithering, so you need to ensure that you are happy with your decision, marry her?

About the Author

 

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about how to attract women and how to get girls in bed.