Monday, August 1, 2011

Would You Date a 25 Year Old Virgin?

Would there be any problem if you went out on a date with a guy and he's perfect, beautiful smile, great skin, reliable income and a place of his own? No of course you wouldn't. But what about if he was a virgin, a 25 year old virgin at that. Is there anything to suggest that anything should change?

For whatever rhyme or reason the guy is a 25 year old virgin the date would inevitably change in most cases. Maybe there would be more pressure on the date, you wanted things to go well and actually quite liked the fact that he was a 25 year old virgin. But most would react unfavourably; they would compare everything else he did to what they already know. And wonder if his actions were a direct affect of being a virgin.

Most would also question the motives of the date, whether or not this was the conquest that he was waiting for. The idea of sex with this person now becomes another issue, the lack of experience will affect the majority of people in a negative way. But hang on a second this is the same guy that ten minutes ago you couldn't take your eyes off of, and you even considered having his babies.

Well you now begin to think that he wouldn't want to just stay with you and live only having slept with one person. But whilst all these thoughts swirl around in your head there also remains the possibility that he might just be waiting for the right person. And in this day of fast living both metaphorically and literally isn't it a blessing that someone could be so loyal to their principles.

Even so this reasoning could still have an effect on most women. Women nowadays inevitably want sex before marriage as do the majority of men, but does this man of principle want to get married before having sex? If he does then it could well be the case that the few women that would stick around after discovering he was a virgin, would now leave.

We should all have sheer admiration for the man however. He lives with this monkey on his back at all times and carries it around with him knowing that the prospect of sex and love are harder for him to get than most. What would you do?

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about how to attract a woman and how to get a girl in bed.

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