You may find the girl of your dreams; years of searching have resulted with you finding the girl you have always wanted to be with. Everything is going perfect, you spend every waking minute with each other, and you enjoy each other's company to a degree you never realised possible, and if you know what's good for you, you know that this is as good as it can get for you. There's only one problem you have that skeleton in the closet that you haven't told her.
Whatever it may be it could threaten your relationship, maybe you have a child from a previous relationship, a secret addiction you keep below the surface or whatever it maybe. But my only advice whatever it may be is to be completely and utterly honest if you want to be with this girl. If you want her to be yours, then you need to get everything out in the open for good.
If you love someone, you love them for who they are, good or bad; you need to ensure that you are getting the best version of you across without neglecting information you might have. So if you do have a secret there is no time like the present to tell her. You would not want the relationship to unfold into something amazing and then find out that she never told you about something that could really affect you.
Your relationship is sacred, and so is everything in it, including your secrets, they will not be shared and if you have secrets how can you depend on each other entirely. It will be stupid to tell her absolutely everything about your day, or about your life because some things are just better left not said, but crucial things in your life need to be shared.
You need to get yourself in the right position to move forward, because if you cannot manage to do that then you will not get the best out of your situation. You will doubt what each other say, and never learn to get yourself in the right frame of mind for life together. Knowing that you will be in each other's company for the rest of your life means that you need to do your best to get everything you need out of life together. And that means telling everything to each other, no matter what it is.
About the Author
Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about pick up artist techniques and pick up lines to get girls.
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