Survive Dating - One Critical Piece of Information You Should Know About Men

In order to survive dating and progress to a relationship, you should be aware of how men are different from women and what works to motivate a man to want to have a relationship with you. Here is one piece of information that can mean the difference between repeated dating failure and relationship survival. If you're losing faith in men because dating isn't working out as you would hope, then understanding this can help you.

In many ways men are very similar to women. Both sexes want to be loved and appreciated. Both want respect and acceptance for whom they are; and generally both want to spend some time in the company of the opposite sex. Probably most people of either sex would also like to have some degree of sexual activity in their lives.

However, there is one critical difference and, for women who aren't aware of this, it can lead to complete misunderstanding of men. This is it. Whereas a woman will generally only have sex with a man when she wants to further a relationship with him, a man will have sex with a woman with no idea of whether he wants to have a future with her or whether he sees potential for a relationship or possibly even whether he wants to be in a relationship at all.

Now the chances are that you knew this already. But do you know what it means for you as far as dating survival goes? It means danger in the early dating stages!

It means that a man can be affectionate and loving towards a woman, and act as though he is in a relationship with her, without feeling any level of commitment towards her. The woman who sees this behaviour is easily lulled into a false sense of security. It is only when she starts to make demands on him that she finds out that he has no feeling of commitment towards her. And that is when things usually start to fall apart and she begins to think that men are all the same.

So, how can we use this information to survive dating? Well, when you understand that just because you have this great chemistry with a guy, it does not mean he is committed to you, you can hold back from getting emotionally attached too soon and watch to see what kind of person he is. Dating success comes mostly from having patience and a positive attitude and learning what works with men. You, too, can turn dating failure into dating success.

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