Why Do Men Play Away?

Why do men play away when they have something good going for them? It is one of life's great mysteries, but it seems to be innate in men that they need to do something wrong in the relationship in order to make themselves content. Even when they are happy on the surface and maintain an equilibrium in a maintained relationship, they seem to need to mess it up.

Men are men and there is no way in which they will ever change, they will always be the way they are and some believe that means they will continue to be polygamists. There is no way in which you will be able to change them and there is no point trying, it is built in to men that they must be unfaithful to women and there is no way around it.

If there is any way in which you could change them then that would be fine, but in the way of men being men there is no way around it. Even if people have the girl of their dreams a little temptation can mean that they end up alone even after that. Because if there is no way around the little boring life of a married couple, they will just go out and ruin it themselves.

Disruptive men give the rest of them a bad name, they make the way women think about men a foregone conclusion and they give nothing away as a result. The way that most men think though is detriment to the fact that they need to begin to trust the girl they are with and because they don't they release their insecurities out in the best way possible.

If there is any way out of getting to the soft side of a man I advise you to do so, because if you cannot handle the heavy side there is no point. You need to make the most of every moment and with men doing everything they can in their power to make it about them you need to be able to handle it. So to get the best out of your time together you may just need to accept that they are going to cheat.

Pull yourself together and make sure that the men you are with are pulling their weight. Otherwise you are in for the long haul and you need to get yourself together.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about how to pick up women and how to get women into bed.