One of the main reasons members quit before experiencing real success on dating sites is rejection. Rejection is a hardship we must face in day to day life but getting turned down from a digital image on your computer screen and finding zero messages can be a different type of disappointment altogether. As with every rejection in life, you are told to keep your motivation high, learn from your mistakes, and improve your chances of success the next time around.
Top Tips for Getting Back on Your Feet:
CALM DOWN!
You may wonder if you're ever going to find anyone. You may envision yourself in a few years watching lame reruns accompanied by 16 cats. Dinner for one never looked so good with a full stock of frozen food and chocolate. Even your lamest friends and most annoying family members will find someone special! Don't forget that dating websites and relationships are a series of ups and downs. Don't let a couple of rejections send you into a hopeless and bitter thought pattern! Take the energy you are giving to these thoughts and put it towards something productive.
EXERCISE!
Exercise is healthy for the body and your mind! Improve your confidence and self-image so that future rejections won't have quite the same depressing effect on you. Change in your emotional state by shedding some unwanted pounds or increasing your endurance. This can be symbolic of creating an overall, new you.
TRY HEALTHY VISUALIZATION!
Playing old re-runs of your best relationship failures (or worse yet advertising them on your Facebook wall) is not going to win you anything. Visualize your success in the future. You may want to start with sorting through what you've learned from your past relationships. There is a lesson waiting to be learned. Maybe you should not go after a certain type of personality. Maybe you should clarify to yourself want your wants and needs are. Maybe you will have a great idea or be inspired to help others and offer support. Why not start your own dating site? It's estimated that more than 20 million people per month visit dating sites. Not all of those dating sites are alike. The question is no longer an agonizing "Why" but now an enthusiastic "Why Not?" There are easy to use dating script softwares out there and available at an affordable cost.
You may feel like you've fallen hard, but this is really your new beginning to push forward if handled positively! Learn how to please yourself and get back up to get ahead!
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