I Know You Love Me But Do You Like Me?

You may love the one you are with but do you like them? It is not too uncommon nowadays to not actually like the one that you love. You in some cases resent them to an extent for the way they make you feel, you still love them but you do not necessarily love them, and then comes the question we all ask ourselves at some point, is love enough?

If love is enough then everybody would stay together no matter what the situation. Now that's not to say that there are not times in which love is not enough, because in fact it is quite the opposite, it is very much in fact that love is the reason many people are together, as opposed to actually liking the person you are with.

If you don't believe you can get through whatever your troubles maybe then the love is not strong enough, but don't be mistaken it is very much different, it is in fact more likely that you will enjoy each other's company if you like each other further.  Love is caring for something, something that you hold very dear to you and those feelings are very much different to the lust you may feel with some people.

Lust and love are incredibly different emotions and there are no easy fixes to a deficit of either. Lust is hard to get back once it's gone but there are certain things that you can do in order to increase your chances of getting it back. Love however is something altogether more difficult. The way in which you throw yourself at something when you are in love cannot be mirrored by anything else, it is completely unique in the way it makes you feel.

If there is any doubt in your mind that you no longer like your partner then there is certainly no point in having an argument about it. You simply have to realise whether it is worth fighting for or not, whether the uncertainty of not knowing whether you still find your partner interesting is unnerving.

If love is devoid then it can be said that you need to move on and if you don't get what you want out of your life then love is needed. There are few better remedies for anything than love and you need to get yourself into the right frame of mind to continue the relationship.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about how to get laid and how to seduce women.