Boredom is the Biggest Factor for Relationships not to Work

Why is it that when a guy meets a girl and they find them attractive they then have to find reasons for it not to work? They have to convince themselves that there are so many better options out there for them when in reality the most suitable person for them to be with is right in front of their eyes. And if there is any doubt over who is to blame over this matter, then you need look no further than one of your friends relationships that has fell apart for no reason whatsoever.

The reason for this break up is most probably because the male got bored of it being too easy, they got bored of not having to chase a girl around and not knowing exactly what is going on all the time. You see men are fickle creatures they love you one minute and then don't want to know you the next so if you do not manage to get ahead in this instance then what is the point of hanging around, that's the way men see it anyway.

They see each woman as a conquest which is fine until you become big headed about it, you want to challenge yourself further and find exactly what it is that is your Achilles heel. So if you are not getting challenged by a woman at all you will most likely just move on to the next one before you realise it, you have no patience for someone who does not challenge you.

If you feel as if you cannot challenge a man then take note because this is how to keep them. You need to know how you feel first, and if you cannot get yourself ahead then make the most of what you do have. Play hard to get, don't offer sex on a plate and keep him chasing you, because if you can manage to do that then you will most probably let him in enough to let him see how great you are.

If you can do this then you stand a chance, you stand a chance in fact with the most idyllic and arrogant of men, you will get what you need and so will they, you will know what you want and get the best out of every situation you are faced with. So start now get yourself out there.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about how to get laid and how to seduce women.