If you think having a long conversation with women is akin to flirting, you are so mistaken. Flirting is a fine art and there are ways to do it successfully to win a girl's heart by not offending her. A good flirt does involve several levels of communication – both verbal and non verbal in order to demonstrate physical attraction and sexuality and by hitting the nail on the head, you can get a great rapport going with a girl.
For those who are not sure where to start, here are a few tips that can help you flirt in style:
Generate sexual tension through a conversation: You do want the woman to think of you in a sexual way. Therefore, when you approach a woman, remember to bring sex up during the conversation. However, this does not mean you want to have sex with her immediately. Narrate funny sexual stories about friends or colleagues and hold her interest in you. Or, role-play as a married man and tell her things that you as a husband would like to do to your wife. Be subtle and yet suggestive. But do remember to interact in good humor so that she is intrigued by your intentions. This is surely going to drive her crazy.
Be funny: tease the girl you are dating or simply get her to laugh. Being funny is a great way to boost your own personality while making the woman work hard to seek your attention. However, don't be a clown or act too arrogant. Just maintain a fine balance between being confident and being funny.
Touch her: while flirting with a woman, it is very important to establish physical contact. Therefore, touching her is imperative. Breaking the ‘touch barrier' will help you move towards creating a positive physical chemistry. Touching her on the face or the thighs/legs is good for starters. If she too is into you, she will surely feel the vibes either by touching you back or opening up more during the conversation.
Discuss adventures: women are constantly looking fro adventure in their lives and this is where you as the ‘Mr. Exciting' step in. Now, by being exciting or adventurous doesn't mean you would start bragging about yourself. Instead, what you really need to do is make your date a part of all your adventures. Make her visualize things and feel the excitement of having adventures with you. Try to steer the conversation towards what all you two can do together!
Here's hoping that these flirting tips will bring out the best in you and help you strike the perfect chemistry with the woman you are dating. Good luck!
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