Should I Text Her Everyday?

When you text a woman everyday, although it's nice, it is also becomes very predictable. Predictable becomes boring. If you are one of these guys that comes on right out of the gate texting her good morning every single morning and good night. you might as well hold up a sign that says "pick me, pick me". Not a very attractive picture is it.

So in answer to should you text her everyday, no, not in the beginning. If you feel you must text her everyday, do so at different times. Also understand that if you start texting a woman everyday, she sees this behavior as boyfriend behavior. Be fair to her. If you aren't sure about her, don't lead her on. Trust me, women will think you are leading them on if you text her everyday.

You can use texting to build attraction if you do it right. A little mystery goes a long ways. If she hears from you everyday, it doesn't give you much room to play on that mystery. Women love mystery. Often it's what we don't do that make others curious, not what we do. You want her to be curious. This inspires her to want to know more about you which makes her want to see you more.

If you are texting her everyday and you happen to miss a day, this is a good time to have the opportunity to measure her level of interest. If she reaches out to you when not hearing from you, chances are good she is interested. This is not guaranteed however. There are some women out there that hell would freeze over before they text you first. They play by the rules. You can pretty much count on the fact that there are more women out there who don't know the rules of texting than do know the rules of texting.

So should you text her everyday? Not in the beginning. Be a little mysterious and don't waste your text messages on boring details of your life. Learn how to flirt with text messages and get her more interested with texts.

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