One Night Stands Aren't All That

We have all had one night stands, and all had sex during a relationship and the world knows that one night stand sex does not measure up to that in a relationship. If there was any doubt in this then it is probably best that you have a one night stand to see which one is better. The familiarity and comfort that you get when it comes to relationships cannot be matched by a one night stand.

One night stands can be more exciting, more passionate and overall more pulsating but in the end pulsating dies a death. If you want intimacy then it is time you got yourself back into a relationship, and if you can manage to do that, then you will give yourself more satisfaction than a one night stand ever could.

Bring with someone who you are spiritually connected to as well as fond of on different levels leaves a greater feeling of happiness and satisfaction. A girl you bring back from a club whose name you frequent to remember the next morning doesn't quite have the same lasting effect. In fact some might even argue that you sometimes don't enjoy the experience of a one night stand.

Feelings of neglect and being used in the morning by one half of the party are not to be encouraged but it does happen, and it can leave you in a state of disrespect. Whether it be a huge understatement or unrealistic expectations, there can be no doubt in the event of a one night stand we are left feeling deflated.

There is satisfaction in the way that we pick girls up in a club and bring them home, a sense of achievement and another conquest. But in the reality of it, it can sometimes be over stated and underestimated, you may get pats on the back from your friends and a couple of women following you up on a request, but longevity means you need a relationship.

So why not go out and make the best of it and try to find a relationship, that way you will get the best out of your life and make the most of your time together. If you believe that you do not want a relationship then that is fair enough, but to corrupt yourself from the possibility of a relationship is naive and damaging.

About the Author

 

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about how to pick up women and how to get women into bed.