Sunday, July 31, 2011

Avoiding the Pain Of Heart Break With Online Dating

I have known heartache and loss. I have known what it means to love someone who does not truly love you back. I wish this person happiness, but doubt he will ever find it. I am of course talking about my ex-boyfriend. When we first met, I thought we connected on so many levels. We were madly in love with each other after two months. We moved in with each other after 3 months, and within eight months we were fighting like cats and dogs.

I tried to make it work with him. I really did. However, the last straw came when he called my mother a whore. I am sorry, but people who are supposed to love you do not say things like that to their significant other. I left with a broken heart and a feeling of despair the likes of I have never felt before.

My friends and family were so supportive during this time. I kept myself busy and slowly recuperated from this loss the best I could. It was about six months later that I let myself go on a date with a guy that a friend knew. It is funny how friends always try to play the game of matchmaker, but never can seem to get it right. I humored my friend of course, but as I predicted, there was no spark between the guy and me.

I decided to try online dating after a particularly bad night. I was feeling very lonely, and was tempted to call my ex and try to reconcile. I am sure most of you would agree that this would have been a very bad idea. Instead of making a huge mistake, I decided to try online dating. I wanted to start dating a professional. I wanted someone who knew what they wanted and who was not afraid to go after it.

Signing up for online dating was probably the best idea I have ever had. I have been dating Carl for a little over a year, and we have been inseparable. I cannot imagine my life without him. If you have not tried online dating, I think you should. You will not be disappointed.

About the Author

Lizzy B is an experienced writer on relationships and the dating industry. She has been writing for quite a while and has had countless articles published. Some of Lizzy's most favorite topics to write on include single professionals over 30, mature professional singles, relationships, and matchmaking services. Lizzy's articles are well written and memorable. They are especially great for anyone looking to start dating and still keep up with their daily activities.

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