What Men Want In A Woman: Someone To Protect Us From Ourselves

What men want in a woman is someone who is brave enough to jump into our oceans of problems and be able to prove to us that they're nothing more than puddles all along. This doesn't apply to everyone, but for the people who do tend to get sucked into misery due to the problems they suffer at work, etc. a wife who will comfort her husband and tell him that it really isn't anything that bad will forever be in his good books. What are some ways that you can show him that his problems aren't really that bad? Here are 3 suggestions for you.

1. Put it into context

This is one of the best ways of showing someone that their problems really aren't that bad. Compare the problem to one that you have. Show how similar it is and show your man how you are responding to the situation. This is a logical way of approaching things that he'll relate to easily.

If you want to really pull him out from the depths of his troubles, make him proud. Us guys have egos and if you know how to use them to make us stand up and fight for ourselves, we'll do it. For example, with the previous example, tell him, "hey are you going to let your wife outshine you at work?"

2. The Guilt Trip

This is another effective technique that you can use to emotionally "manipulate" him and show him that his problems really aren't that bad. The guilt trip is a way of putting his problems into context that show him that crying about his issues is an indulgence.

There are people all around the world who would kill to be in your husband's position, ie. high position at a respectable company, supportive wife and family, etc. make him realize how much he really has and he'll drag himself out of the rut.

3. The Threat

This technique can be effective, especially for guys who are usually quite stubborn and need a lot of persuasion before they'll change their minds on anything.

Make a light threat, something that will get him to act immediately. Here's a tip: if you threaten to take away the thing that he's working hard for, that will force him to straighten up and fly right. Men sometimes need a shock like this.

What men want is a woman who is willing to help us see that our problems aren't as bad as we make them out to be. If the wife can put our problems into context or make us feel bad about our complaining, we might feel uncomfortable initially, but we'll be thankful for her effort afterwards.

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