What Men Want In A Woman: For You To Pick Up Men

What men want in a woman is someone who is able to pick up men. This seems a little bit crazy; when you get married to someone, you vow to be with them "til death do us part". Of course, that's true. I wouldn't want to violate something like that that's been around for centuries. When I tell you to pick up men, I don't literally mean for you to pick them up and take them home. I'm just referring to the skill of picking up. As you'll soon see below, being able to pick up men, even after your married is essential to having a good relationship with your husband. Here are 3 reasons why.

1. He can't chase you if you ain't running

So being in a relationship is all about someone chasing someone, right? Well, not really. It's two people chasing one another. When one person chases someone else, they have to catch them. The other person is then "it" and they have to catch the other person.

If you aren't playing this perpetual game of "tiggy" with your husband, your marriage will stagnate. By picking men up, you're showing that you can still get men to chase you. Basically, you have to show them that you can outrun them to your wife.

2. Keeps you "active"

Playing hard to get like this is like real life. If you're out of the game for a long time, you'll feel quite sluggish if you try to get back in the game. Picking up will be sluggish, awkward and clumsy and you'll basically feel old.

Your man will feel the need to protect you if he sees men trying to pick you up if you're out together at night.

3. Ask him to do the same!

If you let your man go out and try to pick up women, pay attention to the feelings that go through your mind from the moment he gives you the wedding ring. When goes out as a single man, keep an eye out and see who he attracts.

The whole point of this game is integrity. If someone gets too jealous, it's game over, but if you can keep it fun and show each other that you still both can pick up members of the opposite sex, this will boost your marriage and keep it strong.

What men want is a woman who is able to prove to him that she's still attractive. It's easier said than done; if you both play this once in a while when you go out together, it gives you a greater appreciation of each other too.

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