What Men Want No 59: A Brave Heart

What men want is a woman who is brave. Again, this is typically a characteristic exhibited by males but to have a woman who is brave and can hold the fort if ever need be is a real selling point to a man. When I say hold the fort, I simply mean someone who could look after herself and the family if the man couldn't be around at a certain time and look after her. There are a lot of simple things the woman could do to show that they're a brave heart. I'll go through 3 seemingly innocent things that us men do notice that will make us love you that little bit more, because we're proud to be married to someone who's braver than normal women.

1. Take Phone Calls

Some women can't stand phone calls. Get them on the phone with their girlfriends and they can go on and on and on, but get a stranger on the phone or a telemarketer and their voice gets turned down to just a whimper.

If you can answer and phone and decisively and politely decline a telemarketer's advances, or have a chat with someone who's looking for us, before a neat segue into whether you could have his/her name and phone number, we'll be impressed.

2. Get To Know My Mates

A woman who knows the husband's friends well and isn't shy will receive the adoration of her husband. As much as we joke around and want the woman to get in the kitchen and make us a sandwich, we also want our woman to come out and be friendly with our friends.

A woman is an extension of a man. It might sound sort of sexist, but we like to show you off, like "this is my catch, look how great she is!" If you're anti-social and don't come out to events or don't come out to meet friends, how's it going to work out? We're still going to seem single, even if we're married.

Get to know my friends, show that you're not afraid to speak to men you don't know and we'll appreciate you that much more.

3. Don't Be Reserved!

We want women to be equal with us. We don't want you to think that we always have to look after you. We want to marry a complete individual, someone who can look after themselves and who has to confidence to laugh and smile or be critical without fearing backlash.

Women who have this sort of confidence to put themselves out there are that much more desirable in their man's eyes.

Simple, simple things, ladies. Yes, that's all it takes to be considered a "brave heart" in our eyes. Do this much and we'll do so much more for you over the course of the next 50 years we'll spend together.

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