When someone tells you that you are the one, it really does make you feel so special. I have been madly in love with someone before, and have heard all the right words from the guy. He was a very smooth talker. I tend to think now that he was a con artist more than a good guy though. He was very charming in all that he told me.
I was very much swept off my feet with him. It was not until about a year into our dating relationship that I really started to doubt his intentions with me. He started staying out late, and saying that he was out for work. At first this was just fine, because I thought he was really working. However, one night when he said he was working late, I decided to surprise him with a dinner that I had made, and I brought it by his office. Surprise, he was not there. I called him, but he would not answer his cell phone. It was at this point that I was very concerned. Where could he be? When he got home I confronted him about the situation. To his credit he came clean and said that he had been seeing someone else. I was devastated.
It took me a week to get all my stuff out of his place. So, there I was, part of the singles over 35 crowd, and not relishing the idea. I did not have a clue of how to move on. I was not really wanting too. It took me six months to finally pull myself together. I tried dating a friend from work after that. I wish that I could say that he was someone I was really interested in. Unfortunately, things were not going to go anywhere, and we broke things off amicably. I still hate the fact that he knows me so well.
I decided to try online dating based on my mom's recommendation. She had heard of a friend of hers that had met the guy of her dreams in this manner. It took me a little bit of time before growing the courage to try it though. I am here writing this today to let people know how successful online dating is. If you are part of the singles over 35 crowd, you really should look into it.
I have been dating a guy for four weeks, and I still cannot get over how profound the connection we have is. I know it is still very early in our relationship, but I just really wanted to tell people how well we have connected. We have so many common interests and the physical connection we have is so ridiculously great that if someone were in my shoes, they would want to tell to the whole world. Please, for your own sake, give online dating a try. You don't have anything to lose.
Lizzy B is an experienced writer on relationships and the dating industry. She has been writing for quite a while and has had countless articles published. Some of Lizzy's most favorite topics to write on include single professionals over 30, mature professional singles, relationships, and matchmaking services. Lizzy's articles are well written and memorable. They are especially great for anyone looking to start dating and still keep up with their daily activities.
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