Love is one of the most beautiful feelings in the world. So how can one sacrifice this feeling for anything in the world? Friendship is the essence of life. Losing a true friend is the biggest loss that you could ever face all your life. So what happens when these two relationships are placed side by side. What happens when your friendship is at stake because of the love of your life? How do you blend in the two relationships in such a way that both the parties are happy and so are you? Below you will find answers to all these questions that you might be having. Keep reading.
Do you lose friends when in a relationship? The choice is yours. Many a times we find instances where people fall so much in love, that they don't even bother to keep in touch with their friends. This lays down the roots for problems with their friends. Friends in turn begin to get insecure about this new person and also tend to develop hatred towards them. Another situation is when some people value their friends so much that they prioritize them even above the one whom they are having a relationship with. The first bad outcome of this kind of behavior is that your partner will feel that you don't value or love them enough. The second outcome is that your friends may take you for granted and expect you to ditch your partner all the time for their sake. So as you see in both the cases, it will ultimately lead to your own downfall. You will just end up getting suffocated with time. Hence it is important to maintain a good balance between your lover and your friends. See that you spend enough time with both of them. Don't ignore either party. Losing touch with your friends would be a very mean thing to do. Plan outings with them once in a while. Meet up with them sometimes without your partner and keep yourself updated about things in their lives. Also see that whatever happens you are there for them when they really need you. As far as your partner is concerned, they have to be your number one priority. Even your friends should be understanding this. You certainly cannot keep choosing your friends over your partner all the time, or else they may begin to doubt your loyalty. So see that you give sufficient time to your partner. Sometimes you can also take them to meet your friends.
It is very important that your friends and your partner is also understanding. Only then will you be able to make both your friends as well as your partner happy.
The author writes quizzes for girls on love and dating. He also writes love poems which you can share with everyone. He is also a contributing blogger on relationships in mag for women.
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