What Men Want In A Woman: Flab, Scars and Pigmentation

What men want in a woman is someone who is flawed. Someone who has love handles that are very noticeable when they're wearing a T-shirt, someone who has scars from stitches from an accident, someone who has spots, freckles or moles. Men love that. But here's the thing. We only love it as much as you love it. If you let it be a problem, we'll see it as a problem as well. If you embrace it and don't try and hide it, we will see them as things that magnify your attractiveness and beauty. Here's 3 ways to change your mindset and make the most of your flaws.

1. What do you have?

First of all, pay attention to what you do have. If you have a bit extra junk in the trunk, at least you have some. Some women would kill to have curves just like the ones you don't like about yourself. If you're short, think about all your tall sisters out there who can't find men taller than them.

A lot of the time, the things you have aren't common and are actually things that other women would love to have. Wake up every day and tell yourself one thing you have that other women don't have and you'll start sending out vibes that you love yourself.

2. What are you hiding?

So, say you have these freckles on your face that you don't like. From the previous point, maybe these freckles are rare. Maybe not all women have freckles like yours. If you're trying to hide it, you'd be surprised what people would say if you let them see it for the first time.

If you never give it a chance, then you're never going to know what people really think about your so called "flaws". It could turn out to be a real "selling point" for yourself. You might try and show it off more next time!

3. You're going to lose your arm today.

Imagine if that were to happen. What would you do? How would you feel about yourself? No doubt your esteem won't be able to be as high as it was normally. So many women get injured or get scarred for life (literally). What can they do? They just move on.

If you don't let it be an issue for you, then it will never be an issue for you. It's all in your head ladies.

What men want is a woman who is flawed. She could be a bit chubby, a bit short and have moles here and there. But if she's happy with herself, her husband will be happy that she's happy and love her more as a result.

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