Ladies Dream About Their Weddings, Men Don't

Given the way that women think, and maybe over think their wedding day, you would be forgiven for thinking that the man of their dreams had already been found. But women conversely to men just do not talk about the same things in life, and certainly don't think about weddings in the same manner, or to such lengths.

So when you actually meet a man, and he decides to propose, give him a break if he decides that he doesn't actually have to take part in the actual planning of it. You see he thinks that if he stays out of the way, and remains silent when it comes to it, he will have a much more happy time than he did before hand.

It is not ignorance, but kindness, so take that it into consideration when it comes to the planning. How he proposed is really the big question though. Did he take you out for a meal? Maybe he did it at a family party? Whatever way he did it, says a lot about your future together. If he did it in a way, he thought you would appreciate then you most probably have a gem on your hands.

If the ring was something he knew you would like that is another tick in his box, and if the location of the proposal was a favourite place, or meant something he gets all three ticks. Obviously the relationship goes without saying that it needs to be top draw but you could also be forgiven for thinking that people would want to get married to fix a problem.

If none of that applies to you then you are with someone who is going to appreciate you for who you are, and make you feel incredibly special. Knowing what you know about each other already, there is no reason for the rest of your relationship to be any different after you are married. So make sure you remember what got you to the point of marriage.

Otherwise you could be like so many other couples when it comes down to it. They forget why they are together, and have lost sight of what got them together in the first place. So you need to make sure that you remain doing the things you want to do, and if you keep each other happy then that is the way forward with life.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about seducing women and how to pick up beautiful women.