Right, it's time to make up whether you are a player or a relationship man. Because indecision means you cannot fully concentrate on one or the other. The bottom line being that your feelings will kill your game. And if you are a relationship man, do not try to be a player, the two just do not converge, they in fact cause huge disruption.
If you fancy yourself as a bit of a player then it is crucial that you do not let your feelings get in the way of your pursuits. When in action, you game has to be at the top of its powers, you need to be able to decipher and break down the sternest of opposition. Meaning that feelings cannot be involved in you pursuing a potential lay.
If you want to hit something then make sure that you only want to hit it. Because when you leave that next morning you need to make sure that you are leaving with a clear conscience. Leaving someone you can have feelings for is only going to give you a bad reputation or a heavy heart, neither bode well for you in the future, and it's not much fun for anyone.
If you fancy yourself as a relationship man, then you need to ensure that you are able to be a one woman man. If this is not applicable to you then get out of the relationship before it's too late. In a relationship there needs to be a great deal of trust and engagement, engagement in terms of connection as opposed to marital affairs.
With this engagement comes a great deal of feelings, you have a spiritual connection as well as a physical one, and you find yourself in no uncertain terms in love. What you may miss however is the ability to do what you want when you are out, but if you are to be with someone you need to ensure that you are ok with this.
So if you are a player then play the game, but if you feel as if you are going to struggle then make sure you are honest up front. If you believe you can get the best out of yourself with the relationship then make sure that you are able to get into one. So in terms of life goals, whichever you are build yourself up.
About the AuthorLarry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about pick up artist techniques and pick up lines to get girls.
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