500 Miles To The Girl Of My Dreams

What do you do when the girl of your dreams live 500 miles away, and in a totally different country? You have only met her once and you don't even know her middle name, but you instantly felt something and have given yourself a chance by getting her number. In the way that you've got mail, serendipity and sleepless in Seattle have left us all with digital age fairytales, I sit here wondering what to do.

Could it be the fairytale that you always seek, or could it be the painstakingly, long and arduous long distance relationship we always hear of. We have been texting, and the conversation smoothly flowing, a range of topics and it seems as though we have something in common. But without being able to meet face to face properly it can be very difficult to establish how much you have in common.

And even if you do meet on the odd occasion, you cannot really get to know someone that well. There is off course the possibility that because you met each other at different times of the year and in neutral places, the romance is somewhat glorified. You both know the situation, and only have good times together on your weekends away.

You don't have to worry about trivial matters such as, money living arrangements and jealousy. You make the most of your time together and every moment actually means something to both of you. So is it worth changing that, whilst you remain in the position of getting to know each other? Maybe it would be better if we just backed off of each other and gave each other space.

That way no one gets hurt, and we can carry out our lives as normal, without any aggravation. But if you lived life like that you would never get anything done, so it strikes me that we owe it to ourselves to give it a go. If we can manage this, then why not take another step forward.

I'm not one for getting ahead of myself, and already planning the wedding, but why not slightly look to the future and actually give it a go. You will not be disappointed and you can work your way through, day by day. This way you will manage to get yourself back in a relationship that possibly works and you both know the score.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about pick up artist techniques and pick up lines to get girls.