No Matter What We Do, We Cannot Win

No matter what we do in relationships at times, it generally comes down to feeling as if we cannot win in some cases. We struggle at times as men typically, to get exactly why women moan at us quite so much, but it really does amaze me still how we cannot win. If we take the bins out from the kitchen for example, we see we are doing a good thing, but the noisy bins disturb the resting wife in the middle of her favourite soap.

You will learn as you go on through your relationship, that it is not what you do but actually how you do it that matters the most. You can do all the nice deeds you want to, but if you don't do them at the right time you won't get anywhere. Keeping quiet in a relationship may get you through an awful lot of days, but it will also count against you later on in the relationship.

You will be seen as unhelpful and ignorant, so really how do you win? If you give into her every command then you will end up an unhappy man who resents his wife. If you do what you want then you will become alienated from your wife, and your life will be a moaning hell from her. So surely the middle ground is the best way to go.

The fact is you just have to get used to the ways of your partner, it is obviously about everything in a relationship. The compromise and the contrasting ways in which you are able to live your life in a relationship means that you need to allow it. Give yourself a great chance of success by doing what your partner wants, but also make sure that you are able to live your life to your best abilities.

You may never win, but if you can get through the relationship with both of you being happy then it is important that you know what to do. If there is any way in which you are able to do so then make the most of it. Knowing what you have learned about women you need to make their presence felt in the relationship, but that they are also well looked after.

The way in which you carry yourself in a relationship will define how good your relationship is.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about how to sleep with women and how to get women in bed.