The Power Of The Relationship Lies In Whoever Cares Less

In relationships we all go through the pain and anguish of who cares the most about each other. You may not even realise it, yet we all like to be loved and if we can convince ourselves that our partner cares more about the relationship than we do. But it is true that whoever cares less in the relationship is the one that has the power.

You have the power because you can be more relaxed about the relationship than the other, and you will also be able to give yourself freedom. You can abuse the power by giving the other one a torrid time, not that you would in all cases, because you mainly care about your partner. But knowing what we know about our partner means we can see who cares most.

In the beginning power is everything, because we realise that if we control who texts who and when, we control the relationship. And when we have our partner at our beckon call it is then we feel most secure. Secure people are the best to be around in relationships and you can give yourself the upper hand by being as secure as you can.

If you give hot and cold treatment in a relationship then you really do manage to get the best out of it. If you let her get the edge on you, then you become the sap who doesn't know what time she is coming home and goes to the flower show on the Saturday. You need to make sure that you are able to go to the bar with the boys, and play golf on a Saturday.

So if you can't manage to stay ahead of the game and always care less, you will not be as much of a man as you should be. You need to keep the upper hand and to do this you need to do the following. Ignore your partner at some point during the day, through text of course. Always make sure that you talk about other women and you will give yourself the relationship of a lifetime.

So to make sure that you give the best chance possible of your relationship being on your terms, ensure that you are able to make the best of it. Get youself on top, know what you want and go for it, ensure that you care less.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about how to attract women and how to get girls in bed.