8 essential matchmaker tips

There is no doubt about it – for singles who are new to matchmaker services, creating a profile is not as easy as it seems at first glance. First there is the description of yourself, and then there is still your preferred type of partner you are seeking, not to mention the photograph and other information to add. Knowing what to add, and what to omit is the key to creating a successful profile that will get plenty of views, and hopefully plenty of interest.

To help you create the ideal matchmaker profile, here are a few tips to keep in mind:

1. Keep it simple – there are many reasons to stick to the basics when it comes to dating profiles. Firstly, it is best to be as straightforward as possible and only add information that is relevant. Secondly, short, simple profiles are far more likely to be read than long profiles that tend to waffle after a while.

2. Start with the basics – this should include who you are, what you are seeking and what sort of things you enjoy doing. This will help prospective interests learn about you, while also getting some ideas for possible dates.

3. Be clear on what you are seeking – in the world of matchmaker services, you get what you ask for. If you are vague about what type of partner you are seeking, then anyone and everyone will get in touch with you. As these services use common interests and preferences to match prospective couples, it is essential to be clear about what you are seeking to ensure best results.

4. Use a recent photograph – many people add old pictures of themselves when they were younger, thinner and more confident, assuming that this will help them find dates. Remember however that at some point, you will meet up with potential interests. Adding an old photo is much the same as lying about your age, and will generally lead to disappointment.

5. Keep photos clean and natural – a posed photo of you hanging with your friends at a party in a low-cut dress may look glam, but it may also send out the wrong idea. Use a natural photo that is bordering on conservative to send out the right message to prospective love interests.

6. Do not lie – lying on your matchmaker profile is not unlike lying on your resume. Ultimately, if you pretend to be someone that you are not, your date will discover this at some point. Being yourself is the best way to create a genuine relationship based on honesty rather than lies.

7. Avoid bragging at all costs – men who brag about their six-packs, car and salary are always off-putting, while women who brag about the size of their breasts, ability to attract men and their shoe collection are every bit as off-putting. Be confidence without being arrogant, and you will have the best results.

8. Be friendly – one of the most attractive qualities for both sexes is friendliness. Warm, friendly people who have an interest in others and a clear enjoyment for life have the best chances of matchmaker success, so bring this into your profile by adding a sense of fun.

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Bianca Jones offers advice for singles seeking the ultimate <a href="http://www.matchvip.co.za/MatchVIP/our-guarantee.html">matchmaker</a> to ensure success for <a href="http://www.matchvip.co.za/">corporate dating</a>.