Think About It Before Packing Your Suitcase

If you are about to leave a relationship, and are deciding to move out and away from a man that has treated you badly in some ways, but clearly loves you think about it. Think about what your actions will accomplish, and whether or not it is really what you want. Because once you walk away there is always the chance you may not be able to go back, should you happen to change your mind.

Have you thought it all through? Have you thought exactly what you are doing, and exactly what you are able to achieve by moving away. Maybe it's worth looking into whether you have spoken everything through, whether you are able to work things out, before you allow yourself to move on from that.

It is a huge step to actually walk away from a relationship, and if you believe you are doing the right thing you should not be apprehensive. Especially given the fact that dithering about a decision can make it ten times worse, and you can really hurt everyone in the process, including yourself.

So be bold but thoughtful when you come to your decision. Obviously it does depend on what the problems in the relationship are; if they are physical then they may be irrevocable. But if it comes down to certain things that one of you is doing then maybe you can change your ways. You have every chance of moving away from a relationship if they do not give you a reason to go back.

But if they do not manage to revive their problems than it can be a problem, because they will not give you a reason to miss them. But a lot of thought needs to go into the process. The length of time that you have been together obviously comes into it also, with the best time to leave being early into the relationship.

You need to take in every possible aspect you can when making the decision, and if you can manage to give yourself enough reasons to leave, then do so. Giving yourself anything else will mean that you haven't thought things through properly, and you will struggle to comprehend the problems you had.

You will feel guilty after the relationship and struggle to give yourself reasons for breaking off the relationship. So be bold and thoughtful and you won't go wrong.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about how to get laid and how to seduce women.