Dominating Relationships Aren't Fun To Be In

Dominating relationships really aren't much fun for anyone involved. For the ones on the end of a dominating relationship it can be a torrid and tedious time in which they struggle, and for the dominating ones it can seem as if they don't feel right if they are not in control.

A relationship is about commitment and compromise in our relationship so dominating relationships really don't fit the bill. There is no way in which a dominating relationship can be fun for either party involved given that they are not a humouring place to be. There is so much riding on some relationships that it can be hard not to be dominating at times.

Controlling someone however is not love, nor is it healthy. A new job or a new factor in one person's life can lead the other in the relationship to want to assume control. They hate the idea of being out of control of their lives and try to take over the reins of their life by stopping their partner doing things, or at least trying to.

But this causes rejection and resentment from the other half of the relationship, they hate the fact they are being persecuted without doing anything wrong. Both these positions are completely understandable and somewhat acceptable but a relationship cannot continue with these factors.

In a way dominating relationships are the only way some people know how to act. The vulnerable half of a relationship generally become quite downtrodden, they struggle to get themselves up for certain situations in life. And struggle to build upon the good elements in their life, they feel they need to be looked after and as a result like to be dominated.

The dominating factors of a relationship, generally male, feel as though they need to assert their control over a relationship. They are self conscious at times, and feel as if they really need to counteract that by almost bullying their other half. Of course in extreme cases this can lead to violence and victimisation but these are very rare.

So if you find yourself in a dominating relationship, sometimes the best course of action can be to get out of it. But if you love the person there are always ways around it, possibly there is help you can get professionally but more often than not you should sort it out at home.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about how to get laid and how to seduce women.