Loving And Leaving- Do Men Have It Wrong?

Do men have it wrong when it comes to sex, is it fair that they just get up and leave after a night of passion? Is it the wrong policy for them to go before you even wake up after the night before? Or does it smack of a lack of respect from the man, in a way that only ignorant and arrogant men could muster?

Each situation is unique of course, but every time you do sleep with a girl, surely you have the responsibility to at least be courteous and respectful. So many times nowadays, men are given a bad rap about what they do after a night with a woman. It is as usual the few that upset the masses, there needs to be more tranquillity and respect between men and women.

Is there any time that you have just upped and left after a night of sex? How would you feel were the situation to be reversed? If you had a night out when you got quite attached to a woman, how would you react to someone just upping and leaving the next morning? If you wake up to one side of the bed empty, there will be a sense of disappointment amongst your feelings.

There is a flip side to this argument of course. There is always a sense of what could have been from women, but in the long run are men just cutting it loose for the greater good. If they do not feel as strongly as the woman about the experience, it would not be fair to use the girl for sex and satisfaction. Is it therefore a brave decision to cut it loose?

How would a woman react therefore if the man was to stick around, for a month or so and then leave them high and dry? If men actually cut off every chance of attachment, some would see that as being cruel to be kind, and it could actually be seen as a noble act.

It may sound strange to describe upping and leaving as a noble act, but when you think about it the prospect of sex is something most men will jump at. So surely men that actually distance themselves from sex should be applauded. It would be so easy to take advantage of a situation, but instead many moves on and move away from attachment. We still have men who has a lot of discipline and self control.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about how to attract women and how to get girls in bed.