What she says and what she really means

For you to have an idea on how to succeed with women, you should know how to decipher what she really means. Women in general say something that means another thing. To help you with this dilemma here are some examples of "she says, she means" scenarios.

If you are trying to hit on a woman and she tells you "I have a boyfriend", then that just means she's avoiding being rude or wasting her time entertaining a guy she's not interested in. She is not interested in you romantically that is. If she says "I don't kiss or have sex on the first or second date or night", this usually means uncertainty. In perfecting how to succeed with women the trick is doing the right thing at a right time. In this case, you should take the opportunity to add some humor and flip the script on the woman. Say something like "Cool. Do you have more rules before I get to tell you mine?" if she's done then give her a lot of ridiculous set of rules like Friday is a no pants day or Wednesday is a me day.

Another is if she says "you're a jerk or asshole or player" most of the time this is just to test you. If you really want to master how to succeed with women you must be able to pass all the tests with flying colors. Women will often test you if you are really cool as what you are showing her or are you just faking it. Trick is to exaggerate the insult 'till it becomes senseless. "Yes, in fact my weekends are all booked but I can give you a slot if you'll have dinner with me"

All these may have another meaning depending on how it is brought up in a conversation. Again, for you to be an expert on how to succeed with women you should be able to crack the phrases and counter attack her comments and accusations smoothly.

Women have their own ways of showing affection and interest towards the object of their desire. If you know how to figure it out, you are half way through on how to succeed with women. Here are some steps for you to be able to know if a woman digs you or not.

First, start a small conversation. Watch how she responds to your comments, how she reacts with your jokes or how she uncomfortably fixes her clothes and hair. Second, watch for some signs of flirting. If you see her in your future then never ever flirt with somebody else. This is because if she caught you doing this she will automatically assume that she means nothing to you and might just stay away. Third, notice body contacts. In order for you to perfect how to succeed with women you should pay attention to small gestures. Does she touch your hand more often than a friend would? Fourth, it is in the way she looks at you. Do her eyes lighten up when she sees you or hear your name? Lastly, observe her friends. If you don't know them and she has told them about you then they would probably be a bit more accommodating or friendly to you compared to the other strangers.

There are a lot of ways on how to succeed with women. Just a simple reminder though, if you don't feel the same way about her there are also a lot of nice ways to let her know that you cannot be more than friends. The trick on how to succeed with women is to always be nice, if not caring, about her. Women always go for men who know how to treat them right.

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