Like a Bridge Over Troubled Water

Many of our friends are there for us because we have mutually platonic relationships with them, but others that we have are friends with us because they want something more. They are always there for us when we need them, and always around to build us back up again.

When we get caught up in choppy waters there is always time for them to be our bridge over the troubled water ahead. We give them the same back in return but many of our friends that do this for us, will be doing so out of strong feelings for us. These can be hard to deal with if we do not feel the same way, but at times it can be crucial for us to take these friends to the next level.

Relationships with friends obviously come with risks attached but there can also be greater rewards for everyone involved. Life is rocky and the ones that are there for us, always under our noses are the ones we need to keep close to us. They are the ones that will keep us by their side in our darkest hour and take time to include us in their finest.

There may not be any easy way to build up a friendship into a relationship, and a lot of the time it can just happen so why try to build it up. Don't hit on your existing friends hoping to get a reaction from the, but don't rule it out. Some of the best relationships I know have been built upon friendship and some of the worst have too.

It can divide groups, rip apart friendships that have existed for years, but most of the time it is good. Life is good and whilst you're together everything seems to just work out. So if you have a friend that gives you your bridge over troubled water then this is the best way forward for you to stick with.

You will find a dependable partner in them, and provide yourself with someone who truly cares about you, someone who really connects with you. This is so rare that you need to pounce on it whilst you can. You obviously need to be attracted to them in the first place but as you get to know someone better looks can matter less. A bridge over troubled water is a great thing to have, marry the provider.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about how to pick up women and how to get women into bed.