There are three main things women love about men. Passion, mystery and adventure, and a way to attain all three with a woman are to remain elusive. Don't be at her beckon call all the time, and never get in a woman's face. The best way to remain elusive is to not answer your phone at all times, don't always tell her where you are and let her call you.
If you can do this, they will always feel like they have to prove themselves to you, and you can literally have them wrapped around your little finger. It is a great feeling knowing that someone is doing all they can to impress you and a very secure one also.
It can reinstate any doubts you have about a relationship, or any problems you have with self confidence. If you are eve in doubt as to how keen your woman is on your relationship, then a great way to test it is to be elusive. If she comes running then she is most definitely keen on you.
If she doesn't come running it can mean one of two things. Firstly she may not be as interested as you, in which case you need to cut it off as it won't get any better. Or the girl you are with is testing you with the same strategy, in which case you have a game on your hands.
Games never go down easy, but they can be fun whilst they last. So work hard at remaining elusive and if you do find yourself embroiled in a war of attrition then it is crucial that you don't come out second best. It could result in you being wrapped around her little finger. You will always seek her approval and attention, and become needy which is never a good thing.
You will become everything you are trying to stay away from. The last thing you need to do is lose at this battle, and if it isn't a battle then you would have won anyway most likely.
These tactics are especially good in the early days of a relationship when you are just getting to know each other. You will be able to learn about the other's personality using these tactics and although they can be used throughout a relationship, they remain best used in the beginning of a relationship.
About the AuthorLarry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about pick up artist techniques and pick up lines to get girls.
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