What Men Want In A Woman: A Dreamer

What men want in a woman is someone who is a dreamer. Someone who is a dreamer aspires to become better than they already are. They are someone who is not content with where they are currently at and are looking to improve themselves. More importantly, they can see into the distant and picture where they want to be and are willing to work towards that goal. Men love it if their woman has a vision that she can provide him with which will give them both some direction to work towards through their years together. Sure, there's nothing wrong with being content right here and now, but having goals to work towards really gets men feeling passionate about their marriage. Why is dreaming so important in a marriage?

1. Self-Improvement

If you dream, that means that you can see beyond the now. You also are able to plan and break up your dream into tiny, actionable steps that are realistic and measurable. You also have ambition, which allows you to try harder than ever before in your job or your life.

Having a married couple where the man and woman both dream is a great thing to behold. There is a certain buzz of energy that encompasses the couple and they're the ones who get the most out of life.

2. Foresight

Being able to see where you want to go is an important part of being a dreamer. Women who have foresight are pretty common, but what's uncommon is having a woman who is able to get one step close to that vision every day. It takes hard work, but it's doable.

If you're an action taker and you want to get to your dreams sooner, letting your man know what you aspire to is a great way to build your marriage. He can be your accountability partner and see if you're getting any closer to your goal or not every day.

3. The Determination

This is possibly the most important ingredient of realizing your dreams. If you don't have the determination to persevere, then it doesn't matter how often you dream or how great your idea is, you won't get any closer to it.

Expect tough, bad times. If you're realistic and conservative as well, you can also make better and faster progress towards your dreams. But pummeling through the impediments is crucial to getting there. Always tell your man if you're struggling and he'll be happy to support you. Do the same for him too, OK?

What men want in a woman is someone who is a dreamer and an action taker. If she puts in the effort to really chase her dreams, then she'll go far in life. Her man will love her more for that, because two is always better than one when it comes to reaching for higher goals.

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