What Men Want In A Woman No 68: An Irate Woman

What men want in a woman is someone who is always constantly irate and finding problems with everything. Now obviously I'm exaggerating a little bit here. There is nothing attractive about someone who is always angry and finding problems with every little thing that they see in another person. This sort of person is generally unbearable and they'll be lucky to find anyone who can tolerate them. Having said that, anger does have its crucial place in a relationship. In fact, if there is no animosity whatsoever in a relationship, you can expect that relationship to not be as healthy as a couple who argues regularly. Here are three reasons why.

1. They're Actually Aware Of Each Other

There is nothing worse than getting married to someone that you barely know, even if you've spent years and years with them. You might scoff and laugh, but I assure you, it happens more often than you would expect.

These people marry out of social reasons and not out of love. They don't care that they're even together. It's a marriage out of convenience. Lack of anger shows lack of any connection. They might as well be single.

2. They're Actually Communicating

Let's go one step further. If they're angry, that shows that they have their differences, which all couples have in a relationship. Getting over differences and compromising is a key skill of any kind of relationship.

Anger is one of the best vehicles to solve differences quickly. Being angry with each other is better than ignoring the problem. If you ignore it, it simply stays there, getting worse and worse until it simply tears the couple apart.

3. They're Working Together

To complete this set of points, we can see that anger is actually important to work together and solve problems. If no one feels angry about anything, then there is no conflict. This isn't necessarily a good thing, though. The more conflicts that people get over, the better they will be at handling bigger problems down the track.

It allows the couple to function happily and healthily and to sort out their problems without animosity in the future. All relationships will go through these speed humps and anger is actually a great tool for growth in both parties.

What men want in a woman is someone who is angry. She will raise her problems with her husband, they will sort through it and then they can live happily ever after. If they sort through their problems like this, this shows that they are both emotionally developed and can stand the test of time with each other as a married couple.

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