Use Reciprocity to Pick Up Beautiful Women

The theory of reciprocity is often used in reference to psychology rather than to pick up beautiful women, but it works well for this purpose as well. Essentially, it means that a person who is hesitant to say or do something is more likely to do it if someone else does it first. So, if you want a girl to say or do something specific you can help her get to that state by doing it or saying it first.

One of the main reasons why the interview pick up method is not a very reliable technique is because the interviewer does not volunteer any information about himself. Instead, he expects the interviewee to provide all the answers. No girl is going open up about herself to someone who is only interested in getting information from her and not in sharing anything about him.

In using reciprocity, you are engaged in making the girl more comfortable with giving you personal information by volunteering the same information about yourself. So, if you say, "what have you done in the last month that was spontaneous," and she evades the question or can't think of anything to say, you can say, "one thing I did that was spontaneous was that I woke up one morning and decided to go skydiving." This usually will give the girl some time to think of something she did that was spontaneous. She is no longer put on the spot to come up with something because you've done it for her. Typically, she will feel more comfortable sharing with you because you went there first.

Reciprocity is a component of the technique known as building rapport. This technique is often used to pick up beautiful women and it is effective because it serves to develop a sense of comfort between you and the girl. Reciprocity is a key part of qualification because you can take the opportunity to ask qualifying questions that lead into building rapport that leads into establishing comfort. Reciprocity allows the girl to come up with something about her that you will find interesting, which gives you a measure of power in the interaction.

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