What Men Want In A Woman No 42: A Growing Partner

What men want in a woman is someone who is there to not only nurture the relationship, but to also nurture and help the man grow. You rarely get into a relationship where you don't influence each other in some way, shape or form. Unless there is virtually no interaction with your partner whatsoever, there will be some growth along the way. Since it will occur anyway, why not maximize the potential and make it so that you grow as much as possible in the time that you're together? Here are three ways that you can help your man grow, which will make him love you more as a result:

1. Dreams

Everyone has dreams. Everyone daydreams about where they would rather be, who they would rather be. Thankfully for you, at least they already are with the person they would rather be with.

So many people never live out their dreams, simply because they don't have what's called an accountability partner. An accountability partner is someone you report to at the end of the day who can gauge your progress. If you don't have one, you'll never turn your dreams into actionable goals.

2. Health

This one is obvious but again, so few people actually do it. When you're living with your partner, you obvious want to foster an environment that will allow children to grow (for the majority of us, anyway).

What you eat will reflect what your children eat. What you say will reflect what your children say. What you think will reflect what your children think. Do you think how you're currently interacting with your partner promotes the healthiest environment, in terms of physical, mental and emotional health?

3. Imperfections

This is somewhat related to dreams, but is more of a "local" and everyday thing. Your man can't achieve what he wants to do due to certain traits that he has. If you're serious about helping him reach his peak, you will identify his imperfections and help him work on them.

This is really key for you as an accountability partner. As a 3rd party, you have a better perspective of him than he does, so you're in the best position to help him out. It all starts with little things like laziness, procrastination and forgetfulness. Iron these traits out and he will appreciate you for it.

What men want in a woman is someone who will grow with them. If the wife can help a man achieve his dreams, promote a healthy environment to live in and help iron out the kinks in his traits.

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