What Men Want In A Woman No 57: A Realist

What men want in a woman is someone who is a realist. Now, I'm not talking about property (realtor) or realism (arts), I'm talking about a realist in the sense that they are realistic about their relationship with their man. There are several women in the world who float through life, never being fully aware of themselves, nor their man. They get married, simply for the thrill of marriage and wonder where it all went a few years down the track. Women who face reality not only stand to have more satisfying marriages, they also build stronger relationships with their husbands as well. Here are three situations where you have to face the facts.

1. Your man can leave/die at any moment.

I don't want to scare you, but your husband can die at any moment, like right now when you finish reading this sentence. As much as you want a man that you can rely on, you just never know.

That's why it's so important to be thankful and to always make the most of what you have all the time. If you truly, truly understand that every moment is precious, this feeling will be communicated across to your man and he will feel your love (which he will willingly reciprocate).

2. Half of all marriages end up in divorce.

This is sadly another fact of life. People simply don't treat marriage with the respect that they used to do back in the day. Now I'm no old codger, but I didn't get married on a whim. I didn't go to Vegas and marry the first call girl that I saw.

Even if I didn't do that, there's a good chance that I might not make it with my wife down the track. Women who also face this fact appreciate their man for who they are, not who they think they should be.

3. You're Not Perfect.

This is a tough pill to swallow for a lot of women. There's nothing wrong with being the dominant one in a relationship, as long as it doesn't make you think that you're only the dominant one because you're "better" than he is.

Women who realize they aren't perfect constantly try to improve themselves. They are on a more level playing field with their husband, they respect themselves more, which means they also get more respect from their husbands. It's better for them, overall.

What men want in a woman is someone who is realistic. If they're realistic, they have more to get out of the relationship because they're more aware of what there is in the relationship in the first place.

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