What Men Want In A Woman No 58: A Lover

What men want in a woman is a lover. "Well duh, Jack. How obvious is this?" I hear you. But I have something up my sleeve, as usual. I'm not talking about a lover of the sexual kind (I'm assuming that you're already in that position). I'm talking about a lover of a different kind. Love is something which is a desired quality in all humans, yet seems so hard to attain. What kinds of "love" do you think men are inherently attracted to? As you'll soon find out, most kinds of love, actually. Let's go through this in more detail to see what I'm talking about.

1. Love = Passion

Love is so hard to attain for some people simply because they aren't passionate about anything. When you find someone who is passionate about something, it is truly something to behold.

They don't care what people think about them. They could talk 24/7 about this passion of theirs. Their eyes light up when they're talking about this. Even if you've never heard of what they're passionate about, you can't help but get dragged into this passion of theirs.

2. Boring Passions

Now let's be realistic. What if there are people who are passionate about things that are hard to get passionate about, like stamp collecting, knitting or collecting coins? There's nothing wrong with that.

The person who's passionate about it won't be bothered, because they're passionate. The person who isn't passionate (the husband, say) will at least respect that there is another love of their wife's life other than himself.

3. Competition

Continuing on from the previous point, someone who is passionate about something other than their husband has less time and money to spend on them. The husband, respecting his wife's passion realizes that the time he does have with his wife is limited and is therefore more valuable.

This simply goes back to the idea of supply and demand. If the wife loves collecting old English China, the man will either have to spend time with her doing it or realize that the time spent with her can't be wasted.

What men want in a woman is a lover, but not with him. She has to be a lover of other hobbies. This will make her more inherently attractive since she will have less time and money to spend on him, but also because she appears confident since she doesn't care what people think about her passion.

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