What Men Want In A Woman: Just The Facts, Ma'am

What men want in a woman is someone who doesn't jump to conclusions. Us guys say things as they are, but sometimes, this can be misconstrued as meaning something completely different. Often, the degree of how different the meaning of what we say can be thought to be depends on your mood and how you're feeling at the time. It takes a lot for a woman to put all that aside and to see facts as facts. If you don't, you may be causing unnecessary pain in the relationship that could result in distance between you and your man or even worse, a divorce. Here's three things that women tend to assume that cause trouble for relationships.

1. Lateness means no respect

Some people are always tardy. You can't help that. They come over to your house, party or function late, simply based on how they feel. Of course, this could be the social norm from where you come from, but if you make it clear you want them there at a certain time, they have to be there.

When us guys are late, it could be for so many reasons. Maybe we were late because you left us a lot of things to do before we got to your place. We could be late because of traffic. We could be late because of things out of our control.

2. We're Lazy When Really We're Not

Some guys come back home and they're absolutely drained. They have no more energy to even move. Maybe they're newlyweds and they're working two jobs to try to keep the ship afloat. That's fair enough.

What's not fair enough is when the man is deemed to be lazy when he's really been doing a lot for the relationship. Maybe he's had a rough day at work. Maybe he's had a rough encounter at work with the boss/colleagues. Whatever it is, think about how our laziness could really mean that we're just tired.

3. We're Being Stingy

This is probably one of the most common things that women assume that causes havoc in a relationship. Men are stingy with their money. I'd be the first to admit that I'm pretty stingy. My wife hates it, but I'm stingy for a few good reasons.

I'm often thinking about the future and having money to spend on gifts for birthdays for other friends. They can get pretty expensive. Another big thing that comes out of my account is simply bills. She has paid before, but I pay most of the time. If I could pay more, I would.

What men want in a woman is someone who sees things as they are and doesn't insert any unnecessary emotion into her thoughts. The last thing we want is to upset you without even trying.

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