What Men Want In A Woman: Women Who Are Quiet At The Right Time

What men want in a woman is someone who knows when to be quiet at the right time. It's been proven that women can speak up to 5 times as much in one day as an average man. Then again, women can choose to say nothing at all, if they wish scare their man (ie. the cold shoulder). Contrary to popular belief, men do know how to listen, it's just that we don't like it when women inject unnecessary emotion into a situation. We want to solve it, but we find sometimes that women make it harder to solve by voicing their thoughts. Here's how to know when speaking is not getting through to your husband.

1. We don't respond to you

Men have this technique called "stonewalling" where we simply block our wife out if she find that she's not making the situation any easier to solve by being too emotional when she speaks.

It's not that we don't care, it's just a natural mechanism we use to try and focus on what's important. Women can say things multiple times before it gets through to their man. If he stonewalls, that's a sign that he's heard it enough times.

2. We do something else

Something else men do to communicate to their woman that they've heard them loud and clear is that they get up and do something else instead of listening to their wife.

By doing something else, we give the impression that we're busy to you. We want to deal with the problem, but as long as you're saying too much, there's not much we can do. That's why we try to do something else until we figure out how to fix the problem.

3. We yell

As much as we don't like it, we sometimes have to yell to make ourselves heard. Yelling is almost like hitting a woman to us, so we try and refrain from it (that's how I feel about it anyway). However, if we have to get through to you, we'll do it.

Sometimes, it's enough to get through to a woman. Other times, it makes thing worse. At any rate, it's a sign that we don't want to listen anymore.

What men want in a woman is someone who knows that we've heard enough. If you're talking simply to be condescending, that's just annoying. However, if you're upset about something and trying to get us to listen, if we stonewall, do something else or yell, please understand that we're just trying to tell you that we've already heard you.

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