What Men Want No 67: To Be A Slave To Their Woman

What men want is to be a slave to their woman. This is a very important strategy to learn as a wife. Believe it or not, us men want to serve you, doing whatever you bid us to do. Don't they always call men like us, "husband material?" What's so special about the slave/master relationship where the master can treat the slave like something they found on the sole of their shoe and the slave will be fawn over the master? Obviously, you don't want to be in this extreme, but there is some powerful psychology at work there and you can make it work for you right now if you choose to. In fact, if you think that your husband currently doesn't respect you, this technique will work even better, ie. you can expect him to ask you for permission to do things! Here's how this works...

1. Balanced Imbalance

As much as two people in a relationship have to be equal, that balance has to be overturned every now and then so that there is some emotional momentum that arises. This keeps things fun and mimics the feeling of dating, ie. chasing after someone and trying to court them.

If your husband used to be someone who would follow you to the ends of the earth, he could easily exhibit this behaviour again. All you have to do is mimic the feelings you two felt when you first started dating. He has to put in the effort to get your approval again and so the fun begins...

2. A Personal Example

At the beginning when I was still dating my wife, she actually initiated. She called me out first and we hung out, saw a movie and had dinner together. I could tell that she was pretty fond of me. She was doing the chasing and I was just relishing the fact that I was being chased.

Out of nowhere, she turned the tables on me. She told me that since I was too busy studying (at the time), maybe it was best that we just stayed friends. She took away the decision from my hands on whether to date her or not. The emotional momentum swung in her favour. I had to act.

3. Action!

That's the key here. If I didn't act, then I wouldn't be married to her today. You've got to leave your spouse no choice but to act. That's where the magic happens. If they're married to you, they want to chase you. You just have to make them chase you by running.

Does that make sense? Hopefully you can see how the analogy of a slave and a master works out here. Make your man chase you and I can almost guarantee that he'll love you more as a result.

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