What Men Want In A Woman No 62: Female Happiness

What men want in a woman is happiness. Depression is a big problem in both genders; for men, the main issues are not being able to adequately provide and getting pressure at work. For women, the main issues are being overwhelmed by their emotions and letting doubt and fear get the better of them. If you consider yourself a woman who isn't happy enough, then maybe some of the following three situations may be a problem for you.

1. Dropping affection from your man

This is a problem that affects women all over the world, simply because they feel that their man are distancing themselves away from their women over time. This is a normal occurrence in all relationships, yet some women let it get to them to a greater extent.

Take it from a man who's going through it right now. This is actually what's going through my head, since I've been noticing it in my own marriage too: I'm not loving my wife less, I'm realizing that now that we're spending more time than ever together, our time apart is all the more that valuable. I want to appreciate her more, which is why I'm spending less time with her.

2. What If This Happens?...

Another problem which plagues both genders is the occurrence of a disaster. If you're anything like me, then you will have had those negative thoughts plaguing through your head. Even when I was young, I would always think, "If my parents died tomorrow, would I be able to look after myself and my little brother?"

Now, the problem is, "if I died tomorrow, would my wife be able to look after our daughter?" I don't know what conversation goes on inside your head, but what I do to calm down is that I forget about it. The time I spend stressing out over "what ifs" is time I could spend playing with my daughter and enjoying time with my wife.

3. Is He Into Her... Or Her... Or Her?

Again, this is another problem that all people face. Arguably, women face it more, but only if they're more insecure or unhappy with themselves.

Ladies, it's actually OK if guys check out other women. It doesn't mean he's less interested in you at all. That shouldn't stop you from doing the same either. If both people can do it, they have an open, honest relationship, which is better than being jealous any day. Be happy that you can do that at all, some countries prevent you from talking at the opposite gender lest you want to be hurt.

What men want in a woman is someone who is happy with themselves. This comes from taking life less seriously, not stressing out over hypothetical situations and not assuming the worst if your man seems to not pay as much attention to you. If you confront him that will actually make him love you less since it will show him that you're insecure.

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