What Men Want In A Woman: Ladies First

What men want in a woman is confidence to make the first move. Traditionally, men are thought to be the leaders, the pursuers, the ones who take action. If there ever is a woman who exhibits these traits, she is inherently attractive to men. Us men secretly would love it if a woman took more action and initiative, especially in matters deemed to be important to both of us. It's just something that would be really impressive, especially if the woman isn't like that usually. Here are three ways that my wife initiates that impresses me:

1. Gets to know my friends

Whenever you're out with friends, you always expect that your wife is somewhat close off. Maybe she isn't naturally sociable, maybe she's just shy. We all know that it would be awesome if all our friends got along, simply for the introducer's sake.

As the wife, she's an important "friend", so if she made the effort to chat and get to know my friends, it'd be like knowing me better too, since my friends make me who I am. It also shows that you (the wife) are a good catch as well.

2. Plan the night

The importance of "dating" even after your married is important, simply for the sake of keeping things fun. Of course, I'm referring to dating your husband, not another man. Even when you were dating, the man probably had the last decision as to what to do. How do you think he would feel if you called the shots this time round?

Having you take him around here and there, it would seem sort of weird, but trust me, us guys do also like being spoilt once in a while as well. Makes us appreciate you more too, for putting in the effort.

3. Deals with strangers

This is something else that everyone is usually uncomfortable to deal with. Whether it be someone at the door, someone on the phone or someone in public, dealing with people you don't know is an everyday occurrence. If we're out together, it's usually the male that deals with them.

If the woman did it, it would strengthen us. We would be able to back each other up (if the stranger was threatening) and basically keep an eye out for each other. Not many wives do this but believe it or not, us guys would love you to support us out there.

Ladies, it's your move. What do you propose to do to see to it that your man loves you more than ever?

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