What Men Want In A Woman: A Woman Comfortable In Her Own Skin

What men want in a woman is someone who is comfortable being themselves. There is nothing more unattractive than a woman who feels that she has to put on a mask whenever she's out with different groups of people. There's being considerate and respectful for your elders or your superiors and then there's just being plain conceited. Being comfortable in your own skin has numerous benefits that are actually crucial for a healthy marriage. What are they? I'll discuss them below.

1. Confidence

Ah, confidence. That word that gets thrown around so much and yet is so hard to understand. People seem to know what confidence is when they see it in other people, but it's one of those things that seem pretty hard to find in yourself.

I'm sure you would be aware of when you are feeling confident or not. It's a gut feeling, isn't it? Here's something that I hope you will realize one day. This is from someone who used to lack confidence, then discovered the truth about it: "confidence isn't something you learn, or get. Everyone is born confident. You just have to learn how to act yourself when you're most comfortable. That is your natural confidence."

See the parallels with being comfortable in your own skin?

2. Easier to love

No joke ladies, if you want your man to love you more, simply stop trying so hard. If you put in the effort to look pretty and all, we'll appreciate it sure, but realize that we got married to you not because we want to see you with make up every single day, it's because we want to see you every day as you are.

Make up is there to show off, not to hide. If you've made hiding your imperfections a habit, it's something you've got to unlearn if you want your man to love you more.

3. Happier!

Women who are comfortable in their own skin don't try so hard in life. Because they don't try so hard in life, they take it easy. Because they take it easy, they're not as stressed out. Because they're not as stressed out, they're happier. Because they're happier, they're more comfortable in their own skin.

See the pattern there? It comes back to how you feel about yourself and the extent that you let other people affect your perception of yourself.

What men want in a woman is someone who loves themselves the way they are. Us men don't get married to you for what you want to be. We get married to you for what you are. If you take her away, it's going to hard to love someone who you're not.

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