Are You Dating One Man Or The Whole Group?

Women love to share their sex stories with their friends, discuss what they think they should have done in a situation, amongst other things. But they get very agitated if men are doing the same thing. Photos they may have sent their boyfriends or videos that may have been taken are broadcast throughout the group of friends the man has. This prompts some women to ask the question, are they dating the man or the whole group?

Is it wrong in any case to share private photos or feelings with your friends? If women can share the intimate details of their sex life then why can't men share the photos? Just because it is in digital format, and it reveals what they might look like in underwear doesn't make it any different to what women do.

They in fact reveal intimate details about the sex life they have, some of which may mean that their friends learn an awful lot about their man. They may also learn facts about your man that are embarrassing to him, so how is it fair that you are able to broadcast these opinions? And the men are ridiculed if they show off the odd photo of when you turned up in your coat and underwear.

So do men do things that land them in trouble out of spite and arrogance, or are they merely mimicking what their other halves do? There should always be some sanctity between couples, but also there needs to be sharing between friends. You need to be able to discuss certain things with your friends in order to grow in the relationship.

If you cannot share certain facets of life with your partners then you really will struggle in the long run. It is imperative that you have the ability to share in order to stop feeling suffocated and trapped in a relationship. You can also discuss whether certain things are normal in a relationship that you otherwise may not know.

However in terms of men sharing photos and other intimate details, it can at times feel like the women are dating the whole group. They feel they are judged on everything that goes on in their relationship, and that his friends can dictate what goes on in the relationship. There needs to of course be compromise and commitment to each other, but at the same time trust and communication are vital.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about how to get laid and how to seduce women.