If you are looking for a good way to see whether you are in love with someone or not, I have a good way you can tell. If you both need your last dollar just as much, and you have just one dollar to your name, would you give it up to the one you love? Or would you keep it for your own purposes and make the best of it from there on out?
Relationships are all about commitment and contrasting values, if you can make the best of every situation and forsake everything for your girlfriend, you are in love. If not then maybe you are in love but you value it differently when it comes down to it. If there is any way you cannot forsake all others and remain in love then good luck to you.
Compromise however is really the most telling factor in a relationship; it puts a value on your love almost. And gives you some sort of measure as to how much you do actually value each other, and just how you feel about each other. If you can compromise a certain amount for your partner then you are giving each other a bit of a boost in terms of the relationship.
It displays just how much you mean to each other, and gives you ever opportunity of making the grade when it comes to the relationship. The more you can give to each other, the more you are able to take from each other, and the relationship can as a result grow as one. And if you can grow as one, there is no telling quite how happy you could be.
Compromise comes into play most of all, when you are moving in with each other. It depends which one of you is moving out of their home and moving into the other's place. There is a huge amount of compromise needed for the transition to be made. On both parts however, the person moving in needs to make the transition easy, but also conversely it needs to be made into a happy home by the original occupier.
Either way it is a true measure of your relationship, and many couples have broken up because of the moving in process. It is a true measure of what you are capable of as a couple and needs to be measured and monitored.
About the Author
Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about pick up artist techniques and pick up lines to get girls.
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