When The Package Is Pretty No One Cares What's Inside

When you see a beautiful woman what do you automatically think? Do you think I wonder what she is like as a person, whether she is caring, brave or courageous. Or maybe she is a bitter hardnosed person that nobody really gets on with. None of these thoughts enter our heads however; we simply want to get to know her on the basis of her looks.

It's a skin deep attraction but it is something we are all guilty of and will be forever guilty of. We simply cannot help ourselves when it comes to getting to know beautiful women. There is something innate in us that mean we have to get to know this person with the hope of making them ours. It sounds very coarse and perverted but we do it anyway and what's more take pride in it.

Looks are unfortunately the biggest driving force in getting to know women; they are what we look for when it comes to love. It's the first thing we look for anyway, it may not be the most pure of objectives but we are at times like children, we want exactly what we cannot have.

The grass is always greener when you see someone attractive; you want to know what it would be like to be with them. Even if we have a partner already, we sometimes give into the temptation and if nothing else we put ourselves in a dangerous situation. We don't exactly cover ourselves in glory and even though we may not cheat, we really don't help ourselves.

When you get a Christmas present that is decorated beyond belief there is a part of you that does not want to open it. You do not want to be ruining what is on the outside by learning what's on the inside doesn't do it justice. A beautiful woman has the same effect on us somewhat, and half the time we do not really want to get to know a girl before we date her.

We will pursue her, blind to the idea of what she is really like. It may be an immature attitude towards dating, but we all do it. Being shallow is unfortunately what we are all guilty of on some level. We do not look at things beyond the face value at most points, when really for our own good we should do so.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about seducing women and how to pick up beautiful women.