Being Alone Isn't The Worst Thing

Being alone in life is something we all worry about at some point. We fear that being alone will bring about a huge disappointment in the circles we move in, and we can't show our face at social events.

But is it really that much of a disappointment if we cannot hold down a relationship. Being single gives us clarity and perspective we would otherwise not have. The perspective we can gain from being single is priceless, we can discover what it is that really makes us tick. Find out how we work and what kind of person will complement our personality best. This gives us the upper hand when it comes to finding the girl of our dreams and that is what we need.

There is no end to the amount of nerves we have when finding the girl of our dreams and although being single takes us out of the game somewhat, it also gives us calmness.

Calmness gives us confidence, and the confidence we get from being calm is different to the confidence we get with being brash. The confidence we get from being alone gives us the confidence in ourselves, we feel comfortable whatever life throws at us. Whereas the confidence we have when we are almost cocky means we are there to be shot at.

Life has a funny way of knocking us off our perch when we think we are untouchable but confidence with perspective means we really are untouchable. We become irresistible to women and the clarity we have means we do not let a little success run away with us.

So a little clarity and time alone really can work in our favour in the long run. Short term problems can give us long term happiness so be patient and good things really will come to those who wait.

If you cannot wait however which many of us can't then you may well be rewarded anyway with the girl of your dreams. But if she comes at a price and it doesn't last long then the clarity or lack of in this case may be to blame.

Given how short life is it can be hard to wait so long for happiness, but a wait for happiness is better than impatient misery. Unrequited love is hard to take so if you have your perspective you will minimise your chances of suffering this fate yourself.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about how to get laid and how to seduce women.